~ Diary of Good Men~

Encouraging Conservative humans on commonsense ways to successful living

[~ Diary of Good Men~ @diaryogm]

Good men 😊

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Inside my diary...

Some tough truth that I think about studying relationship. It's there before me yet the ladies in dishonesty tell themselves some delusion as I see it.

Men's ego is an essence
Respect is a fuel
Submission is always protected

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Inside the diary...

The natural law found in farming,

If you plant potatoes, you don't get apples. You get potatoes back.

A strong law akin to the law of cause & effect.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

I've said before, put your husband first

But women tell me, "You're neglecting yourself."

This is backwards thinking.

Many women don't understand that the small things like:

• Serve your husband before you serve yourself.

• Make sure your husband receives the larger share of resources.

• Check on him before you sit down to relax.

• Don't make major decisions without his approval first.

It's these small, daily acts of consideration that keep relationships strong.

When a man sees that his wife consistently has him in mind, he's far more likely to reciprocate.

When women say things like, "He's selfish," more often than not, she led with selfishness from the beginning.

Respect, care, and devotion tend to multiply when they're modeled.

Women have tremendous leadership in their marriages if they understand this concept, because there is power in individual responsibility.

They can lead powerfully within the home by setting the standard in the marriage.

Regardless, of what the husband is doing.

Instead, women pay too much attention to his obligations while ignoring their own actions.

Then they go and chase leadership in corporate spaces that require them to compete with men who don't have their best interests at heart.

The true neglect is their inability to understand their own responsibility within their home.

This is one of feminism's biggest deceptions: convincing women that serving the people they love is oppression rather than one of the greatest sources of influence they'll ever have.

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

My biggest flex is my man can grab my phone whenever, answer, look through my texts and I wouldn't even flinch. A generation that normalizes cheating and sneaky movements wouldn’t understand.

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Think right...

Marry well.

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@ywomendeservles 😂

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Inside my diary...

After understanding has grabbed one's being, picture 1 is defined only by picture 2.
2 has a higher priority than 1.
It works in no other way from studies of successful people on the subject

That's the conclusive summary of what to look for, for marriage 💍.

[~ Diary of Good Men~ @diaryogm]

Marriage is listening, learning, changing and getting closer to becoming a better person together not apart.
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Always a delight to learn from successful experience of wisdom 😉

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

I’ve been married for decades.

I still listen as my husband talks about government, the military, guns, and world events

topics I knew nothing about before we met.

They’re not always my natural interests, but I listen anyway. Sometimes he’ll talk for hours and I’ll just sit and listen.

I’ve learned from him, asked questions, and grown to understand what he loves and why.

That’s part of being a wife.

It’s what I call “duty listening”

giving him my full attention so he feels respected, valued, and heard.

Real marriage means choosing to listen and learn about the things your spouse cares about, even when it takes effort because you care about them.

This is exactly why so many modern relationships are disconnected today.

People don’t have much in common anymore, not because they’re incompatible from the start, but because they refuse to take the time to listen and learn.

They chase what personally excites them, and never bridge the gap.

Without that investment, shared interests never develop, only parallel lives.

It’s why they have separate friends, and act single even in relationships.

The world wants women to believe marriage is self-serving: weddings, baby showers, vacations, and retirement plans.

It’s not.

Marriage is listening, learning, changing and getting closer to becoming a better person together not apart.

If she won’t watch what you watch, listen to what you care about, or learn from you, she’s not the one.

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Wisdom talk...

💥 BOOM

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Science of toxic feminism...

It kills the fabric of a healthy love life in nature.

We don't ever talk from exceptions, as there are usually no lessons from them. They only energised dopamine rush which is what controls immaturity.

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Control is a trait for a protector...

Not for the protected.

Submission is the trait for the protected.

Just look into nature, you will find this every time. Why contend with nature? Why will a sane person defy gravity without technological aid? 🤷‍♀️

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Maturing helps a lot.

Make it a thing as quickly as possible.

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Diary health...

Your nails tells more than you know. Pay attention 🙏

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The cheaters' mind set...

If you know how it works, you can know how to deal with it personally if you really want to...

Listen. Learn. Find a solution. Do

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Understanding the science of attraction.

One must understand the difference - between the thrilling dopamine rush of something new & the silent maturity of something reliable

This seperates children from adults in nature. And adult must get it!

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More wisdom talk...

If one can be self honest, this is good reality check

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Wisdom talk...

Just getting wiser is useful if you want success...

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@pallnandi Obtuse distortion of principles in the eon in the name of feminism but it is toxic & unnatural by science of biology & psychology

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Wisdom talk...

Revealing the dynamics of resentment & hurt.

Understanding this can be a foundation for recovery.

Learn. Receive. Do
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[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

99% of women are average.

The above average man isn’t looking for average.

So 99% of women chasing above average men aren’t actually securing anything long-term for themselves or their children.

If you understood biology, you reject men who won’t value you.

But social media made the world seem small and rewards women for bad behavior.

This is why average women are confused.

They mistake sexual access with commitment because men in your DM’s offer short-term gratification for sexual access.

The guy who’s not in your DMs, who you shrugged off, asked you to get off social media and you told him “let’s just be friends” because he was “average” and you feel you deserve better

If you were smart, you’d see that the “average guy” who wants commitment is actually your perfect match.

But most women have to find out this lesson when they turn 40 and are childless and alone.