Like one day you could have everything you ever wanted and then one day it could be gone… or you could have nothing and then one day day have everything you’ve dreamed of.
Setting boundaries feels so harsh but then afterward you realize people will either accept them or they’ll get offended and leave you alone. Very telling of who deserves to be in your life and who doesn’t.
I’ve become so violent recently. Not because I’ve been mean. But I’ve been setting boundaries that I never have before and it scares people away. I think it’s a good thing.