This isn’t a cancellable take but… I find it so manipulative when people use alcohol to mask a desire they had while they were sober. It’s the people who already knew what they wanted to do and were going to do it anyway, but just got tipsy to minimise the accountability.
The right ppl appreciate you. They respect you, they value you – your energy & your time. They love you, believe in you & support you however they can. They don't make excuses & their actions always speak louder than their words. Thats how you know who deserves to be in your life