i just feel like i done had my run wit mfs giving bare minimum like if you can’t give me what i want this is not where you should be! go where your heart at
I’m not okay, but I have to be okay because I’m a mother. Giving up isn’t an option when eyes are counting on me. So even on the hardest days, I keep going for him, and for myself.
Y’all this guy asked to take me on a date today and I said ok cool, but I told him I didn’t have a babysitter so my kids would have to come. He said that was fine and told me to bring them. We vibed, ate, and everything seemed cool. When the waitress came back and asked how we wanted the tab, he said separate. I didn’t think nothing of it until she came back with two tickets and he handed one to me. I asked why he was giving me a bill and he said, “You have to pay for your kids and one of your drinks.” I said why am I paying for anything when you asked me on this date? He said, “I asked you, not your kids. Your children are your responsibility.” I told him I couldn’t afford that tab and I would’ve never came or I would’ve suggested somewhere cheaper if I knew that. This man got up, left the table, and said, “I’m sorry but that’s not my problem Shanlavell, I paid my part.” I was so embarrassed I sat there crying for almost two hours trying to figure out what I was going to do. Out of nowhere a stud walked up, asked me what was wrong, and after I told her, she said, “Your first problem was dating men.” Then she paid my whole tab and walked off. Now I’m over here rethinking my whole life and might just start looking for a girlfriend.
Any child that leaves my house is gonna be clean! Teeth brushed , hair combed, face washed , showered with clean clothes on & they will have had a hot meal. Anything else is lazy & negligent. I don’t play that