Ini pertanyaan yang paling sering bikin orang frustrasi, “Gimana cara ngilangin perasaan suka/sayang ke seseorang?”
Fakta paitnya secara neuroscience: Ga bisa.
Otak manusia ga punya tombol delete.
Secara psikologi kognitif, perasaan itu cuma bisa luntur atau hilang lewat 2 jalur utama ini.
- Dilarang pacaran * gw manut
- Gaboleh ngerokok *nurut
- Uang jajan 1000 perak sehari hrs ada yg disisihin *gak masalah
- Gaboleh keluar malem *siap nyonya
- Harus rangking 3 besar *Siap laksanakan titah paduka yang mulia
Skrg mau ngapa²in tkt gagal & gapunya tmpt buat cerita-
Passion tinggi yang MinBe maksud be like.
Perhatiin style pemeran di menit 00:27, tanpa diarahin pun doi langsung melebarkan kakinya untuk memaksimalkan serangan lawan 💯
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What you do in private always shows in public. Reading shows in conversations. Your workouts show in your physique. Your diet shows in your energy. Your discipline shows in your confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching.
You will remain depressed for the rest of your existence if you don't learn to take some ownership over your life. Sometimes you do have to take calculated risks, say no and stand up to someone/something that bothers you, make the changes YOU want to see for YOUR life without requiring for external approval to do it. You cannot enjoy your life if you are dormant about your own success or commitment to happiness. Being passive is toxic, don't let anyone trick you into thinking otherwise, be aggressive and committed to pursuing your deepest desires and go at them until they become a reality, it's completely up to you.
I highly recommend having hobbies cause it distracts you from falling in love unnecessarily, and I have an explanation. An ideal mind always mistakes loneliness with love, but busy minds have standards, because when most of your days are filled with things like lifting, creating, reading, learning things like that, you stop chasing people for excitement, because we have a really bad habit of romanticizing every bit of attention that we get. Even if it was not not directed at us with the same intensity of intention, most of the time you are simply wanting something to do.Instead of the feel that you're confusing with wanting.And I strongly believe that best relationships are built when two complete lives meet instead of two bored people who try to become each other's hobby, the interdependence in that situation would create the pressure which finally would become the reason for the eventual breakdown.
18! Menurut kalian kenapa makin kesini baik laki2 atau perempuan pada susah bgt buat dapetin pacar/pasangan? Apa beneran sesusah itu nemu yg cocok ya guys?
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."