Sometimes you gotta remind people… I was already chosen before you arrived. Already blessed. Already building. You was an addition to the frequency, not the source of it.
People get so caught up in the shame of being called out on something, that they make the situation ten times bigger than what it had to be. Life could be so simple if accountability was normalized. You did a thing I didn't like. I named it. You acknowledge/apologize. We move on
“Your best is good enough”
“You are not your mistakes”
“See things for who/what they really are no matter what you want them to be”
“When ppl show u who r they are believe them the FIRST time”
If a monkey hoarded more bananas than it could eat, while most of the other monkeys starved, scientists would study that monkey to figure out what was wrong with it.
When humans do it, we put them on the cover of Forbes.
dealing with an overly difficult person is exhausting in a way that’s hard to explain. it’s not even the issue itself, it’s the constant resistance to understanding, like every conversation turns into something heavier than it needs to be.
This is probably the most common and pervasive way in which little girls are taught to prioritise men and placate them at all costs and little boys are taught that life should revolve around them as adults.
this girl on TikTok said, "take care of yourself so you don't become a hater when you see a woman doing better than you." ... & she was right. a lot of women don't realize the hate they throw at other women is really unhealed envy. you're not mad at her, you're mad because she's doing what you keep saying you'll do but haven't had the discipline, mindset, or courage to start.