It has to work out… because i want spontaneous trips, slow mornings, a beautiful home, time for my hobbies, and a life that doesn't revolve around weekends.
I like being the way i am, a little distant from everyone, direct when necessary, with a serious face, I don't talk to just anyone, nor do I try to fit in where I don't want to be, and the truth is I am calm and at peace like this.
You’ve got to like yourself enough that you believe you can afford to be fussy/picky. Because some of you live life like you’d be blessed to be chosen, rather than people would be blessed to have you.
My issue with dating these days is people thinking they don’t have to continue doing the same things they did in the beginning to get you. Nah baby this is forever lol
I LOVE being soft, pretty & feminine. I love smelling good, keeping myself together, wearing cute pajamas, buying new perfumes & body oils. I love fresh flowers, candles, spa days, skincare, getting my nails & toes done, and looking good for no reason. I love being in tune with myself, knowing my emotions & protecting my peace. I don’t wanna be hard or act tough. I wanna be pretty, peaceful, soft & happy. I just LOVE being a woman.🫧🩷
Nobody prepares you for how much quieter you become in your 30s ! You stop needing to be seen, chosen, understood or validated ! You just want to feel rested, regulated, grounded & at peace !
Nobody prepares you for how much quieter you become in your 30s ! You stop needing to be seen, chosen, understood or validated ! You just want to feel rested, regulated, grounded & at peace !