one thing i will never ever do again is to be in a relationship with an avoidant. i need someone who is willing - to love, communicate, repair, choose me and the relationship, show up, stay.
Women, please stop ignoring early signs of unkindness. A man who is comfortable being rude, dismissive, impatient, or inconsiderate in the beginning usually doesn’t get better with time. Leave early.
I wanna experience a man loving me so much, that hurting me is unfathomable to him … even when we’re not seeing eye to eye. On our worst days, I’m still the apple of his eye.