@lesbianranch@br00ny89@moanofar4@Lisa_C_Swain@FrancescaBuilds Happily married to my wife actually. She doesn't agree with my take on what went down with Swarla in this period. But you can't compare feelings on soap to real life and relationships. Real life is so much less dramatic.
@Lisa_C_Swain@FrancescaBuilds If the situation Lisa was in. She was at first and I know it sucked for her. I also have the benefit of knowing Becky was manipulating both of them. But I didn't think Lisa did anything bad enough for Carla to leave. My opinion.
@simplymrtv@FrancescaBuilds Opinions vary but when I read this I feel like we watched two different shows. I'm peacing out because this is just tit for tat and I'd rather watch football and read my lesbian romance novel. Sorry this ruined Swarla for you all. I still very much enjoy them.
@Lisa_C_Swain@FrancescaBuilds Also, that's not emotional cheating. It was Lisa treating Carla badly, which she did. But treating your partner badly does not equal emotional cheating.
@Lisa_C_Swain@FrancescaBuilds It wasn't. And this is all everyone's opinion. But how can it be emotional cheating when she never wanted to be with Becky? Make it make sense.
@FrancescaBuilds@Lisa_C_Swain Not for me. I think Lisa did some shitty things. I also think Carla could have been more understanding. They also were both in an impossible situation. But doing shitty things isn't cheating.
@TVMusings26 And on the re-watch....it was just so soapy. Imagine how we all would have felt if we hadn't known Carla was kidnapped when it was revealed while Becky played Lisa's vm saying she still loved/wanted Carla after sleeping with Becky. Pure soap drama.
@FrancescaBuilds I'm not saying that Carla wasn't treated badly at all. But there were reasons for that. Carla got over it. She loves Lisa and forgave her and so did I. Also it was so soapy...I think it was out of character for Lisa because it's a soap. That's why I could easily forgive.