according to psychology “when you lose an emotional attachment to someone you realize how ordinary they actually are. it’s your love and your energy that makes them seem so perfect” and that’s real shit.
I saw a post that said, “Did you really think Allah would give you a heart like that and not create someone who could love you the same way?” and it genuinely brought tears to my eyes.
Because sometimes being soft and sensitive feels heavy…
DON’T JOKE WITH THIS DUA: Ya Allah when the day of Arafah ends, let me wake up as someone different. Cleaner. Peaceful. Closer to You. Please Don’t let this be just another day I wasted. Let it be the day that changed my eternity
Men really get upset when you verbalize how you'd like to be loved. Sir, no one said you have to be the man to love me. If I say I love flowers and I want my doors open and you view those as a chore more than a gesture.
It's simple...Move
Manipulative people don't say sorry. They reframe the story until your reaction looks worse than their behaviour. Suddenly, you're explaining yourself while they walk away clean
Ignoring your woman’s needs and still expecting a healthy relationship is like skipping maintenance on your car and expecting it to run forever. Sooner or later, it breaks down.
Sent him almost 50 pics, and he replied to EACH AND EVERY one.
And yes, he is employed, also studying for an exam, is an high achiever, and no, its not "the start" of our relationship.
So yeah girls, if he wanted to, he would.
The fucking audacity of men to be such manwhores, liars, and the worst cheaters yet still manage to portray themselves as victims publicly and defend all the shit they do.
A manipulative person will watch you pour your heart out, sacrifice your peace, and lower your standards, all while they give you the bare minimum and calls it effort. Then when you finally fed up, somehow you are the problem.
When someone is suffering mentally or physically, and if you cannot help them in any way, please DO NOT ADVISE them when they share their suffering. Just listen to them if you can.
No disrespect to anyone, but God please don’t send me another man who doesn’t know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don’t want a man who’s still battling himself, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don’t want a man who can’t stand firm, speak for himself, or take control of his own life. I don’t want a man who belongs to someone else, is still tied to past situations, or lacks compassion, empathy, patience, and romance. I’m not built to carry a grown man through life while neglecting myself. Dealing with someone like that will drain you mentally, emotionally, and physically. I want a partner who’s already doing the work, not one I have to break myself trying to fix. Keep that kind of man far away from me.
God please keep me away from another lying partner with a victim complex who denies their mistakes and manipulate you into believing everything is your fault.