Nsengiyaremye Dismas

National Peace Advisor| Development.M.A candidate in Development Studies|Nonviolent Communication, Critical thinking| and Alternative to Violent Program trainer

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

Yesterday, Sunday On July 16, 2023 we had an opportunity to present the Summary of the #Book #Don't #BeNiceBeReal by @KellyBryson @talkchange &I enjoyed #exchange. I have entitled my presentation “Don’t Pay the Huge Price of Being Nice". Embracing #authentic #relationship.

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@oswaki PIASS currently @PUR_RWANDA

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

Personal #Growth _ Growth by #Choice NOT By default (Age/numbers).

Inspiring Growth _Resisting #Manupulation while making #conscious Choices/ #Decisions.

#CriticalThinking
#PersonalDevelopment

There is always something that went wrong rather than someone who is wrong.

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@Annemwiza @Annemwiza this is a milestone to celebrate. Self -care is sanity NOT vanity. Your journey can inspire and challenge those lost hope and still making unconscious choices towards their healthy life at the sametime. Congratulations #healthychallenge and #Lifeconciousnes

[Protestant University of Rwanda @PUR_RWANDA]

1/2) Yesterday, 15 students completed a 2days Non Violent Communication workshop under the theme "Speaking & Listening to Connect." It was organized & facilitated by our graduate @Dismazo, co- facilitated with @SylvineLinda, in collaboration with https://t.co/lMOhYHL7Th.

[Stafford Rubagumya @rubstafford1]

Muraho neza rubyiruko ruri hano, ndashaka gutanga amahirwe y'ogutanga Coffee brewing trainings kuri @Stafford_Coffee Musambira mukwezi kwambere( January) kurubyiruko 5( Abakobwa, abafite ubumuga nabandi babyifuza kubyiga. Training nubuntu. Ababyifuza DM.
@_TuyisengeEpiph

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@tina_munang @InvictusF250 @medsar_rwanda @ScophRwanda @rwanda_scorp Congratulations @tina_munang

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

It's only emotionally secure individuals who can receive, blame, judgments, & and accusations from the other person who is expressing pain from unmet needs, and translate those feelings into unmet needs while trying to connect. #Peace #relationship #NVC

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@medsar_rwanda @Gloire_Sebu @SylvineLinda @Uni_Rwanda @UNRwanda @NARwanda @RefugeesRwanda @harerimana_tito @rwanda_scorp I would extend my gratitude to @piasshuye through #CRASPD and my entire team for tirelessly supporting youth Peacebuilding initiatives like an introduction to #Nonviolent #Communication since 2017. Thank you very much for allowing us to give back to the community.

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@medsar_rwanda @Gloire_Sebu @SylvineLinda @Uni_Rwanda @UNRwanda @NARwanda @RefugeesRwanda @harerimana_tito @rwanda_scorp "One of the important needs we all share is contributing to others' well-being" This is one of the #NVC #basic #assumptions that I like. I was delighted to share the knowledge and wisdom whilst celebrating your keenness for learning @medsar_rwanda youth.

[MEDSAR RWANDA @medsar_rwanda]

Today, thanks to a team of facilitators from @CRASPD ; @Dismazo @SylvineLinda and @Gloire_Sebu ; MEDSAR members and some students from other faculties of @Uni_Rwanda through @rwanda_scorp, had a detailed and interactive #day1 workshop on Non-violent Communication.
#Peacebuilding

[NIWEMWIZA Anne Marie @Annemwiza]

Ego baba rero. Ibi najyaga mbibona muri documentaires zo muri za Vietnam. Niba ari ko bimeze aba bana bakeneye ubutabazi pe.🥺

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@ScoviaMutesi @Annemwiza @NsangaSylvie @BayisengeJn harya ubwo ibi nyabwo bigize violence against women?

[Gad IRANSUBIJE @IransubijeGad]

#WeForHer
Sinzi niba binsaba kuba @RwandaGender, @RwandaGender @Appostle CQ @Bishop kugirango nerekane ko izinyigisho zibasira abagore zitarikubaka ahubwo ziteje inkeke Ku muryango nyarwanda wejo hazaza kandi zifite ingaruka mumizi yo kwimakaza ihame ry'uburinganire.

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

@piasshuye @PeninePenny @HEC_Rwanda @Rwanda_Edu @UmuziranengeGlo @MUHOZIEMMANUEL5 @EprRwanda Congratulations to Celestin and @piasshuye at large. We are delighted to have more PhDs in the room.

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

Mwaramutse @Lands_Rwanda. Mwadufashije, icyangombwa kirangiye gikeneye kuba printed out byanze. Bigenda gute, muradufasha iki? Ndi @HuyeDistrict
UPI: 2/04/02/03/6970

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

We are grateful to have reached more than 200+ youth in the #Peaceinitiative through our capacity building on the Introduction to Nonviolent Communication #NVC.

From December 20-22, 2022 &
January19-21, 2023 conservatively, with the support from #Komer…https://t.co/zV1Hb9I2Sl

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

#NewProfilePic

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

#Growningup
Self-care is #Sanity, not #Vanity
People sometimes feel afraid & worried to express their unpleasant feelings (#innerconflicts)#thinking they will seem to be weak and sensitive, unfortunately, the conflicts which is not #transformed ( resolved) it is # transferred.

[Muvunyi Serge @Mudaheranwaaa]

@Dismazo Keep it up

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

Probably it happened. Kelly. B mentioned some of the rewards you will receive or have received. Among of them, he mentioned depression, job meaninglessness, carrier confusion and manipulation aming others.
The book complemeted the one of Dr. Marshall, it reflects to the victims

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

His book, #NVC a language of Life more on the side perpetrator ( In the case we call people bad or good) because they either did something we did not like or we liked at all and we think that they deserve punishment or rewards).

[Nsengiyaremye Dismas @Dismazo]

The last October, I found a moving and inspiring book by #KellyBryson, #Don't Be #Nice be #Real, Balancing Passion for Self and Compassion for Others.
Have you ever compromised your need/s just to meet the needs of others? Just trying to be a nice colleague and boy or girl?