@Thuramangels Quindi fondamentalmente se non si vogliono inculcare i disturbi alimentari ai figli sarebbe il caso di risolvere i propri. E questo non riguarda solo l’alimentazione. Troppa gente si riproduce senza essersi risolta.
@Thuramangels Non è solo una frase ogni tanto, è il comportamento in generale. Io a 5 anni mi sentivo grassa anche se nessuno me l’aveva mai detto, ma avevo l’esempio in casa che diceva “il proprio corpo va odiato” con ogni gesto che faceva.
@ScafAnna@veneto_ Non è questione di età ma di sapersi vestire in modo adeguato al contesto. Sei pur sempre “in ufficio”, non a una festa in discoteca sulla spiaggia.
@spighissimo@CharlyMatt Concordo. Ad esempio, chi è a rischio melanoma è costretto a rinunciare del tutto. (Il primo che risponde “non sei obbligata ad andare in spiaggia 🤪” vince un palloncino.)
@Peacezogallery@luxemiaa The question is, how much does this man really care about the kids? Does he want to be a father, or does he just want to be sure that his sperm is spreading? Bc if it’s like that, he can have full custody when the divorce “comes out of nothing”.
For 12 years, I was married to a conventionally “nice guy.”
He never hit me. Never cheated (or at least I didn’t know and we never had infidelity issues), he never even argued much.
He was calm. Quiet. Agreeable.
In the beginning I thought that meant I was safe, and I felt lucky to have him.
Because other women had worse right?
But this is exactly why the marriage eventually failed…His “good guy” image meant he never led.
He never decided.
He never carried weight.
So I did. I had to step in and keep the boat rowing and afloat.
Financially. Emotionally. Strategically.
And eventually I was left tired, exhausted and resentful.
Because “nice” without initiative is passivity.
And passivity turns a wife into infrastructure.
I wasn’t married to a monster.
I was married to a passenger.
And I had to step off that car that was leading me to oblivion.
@DeadSpaceWalker@qaswerty1234@malimorte Oddio, se io ho quasi il 50% di trattenute in busta paga mi aspetto che la sanità funzioni a prescindere da quanta IVA paga il medico privato