Reflection and review enables the long term improvement of all habits because it makes you aware of your mistakes and helps you consider possible paths for improvement.
“The people at the top of any competitive field are not only well trained, they are also well suited to the task.
If you want to be trulu great, selecting the right place to focus is crucial. “
~James Clear
Your husband cannot meet every need, and he was never supposed to. Expecting one person to be your therapist, best friend, provider, and pastor/Imam is a setup for disappointment. Give grace where necessary.
Don’t keep score, it’s not healthy.
Who did more, who gave more, who sacrificed more, that ledger will destroy you. Marriage thrives on generosity, not accounting.