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Big dad energy

[adit @ditcionary]

mentally I'm here

[Galileo @glrhn]

Pencairan JHT itu jika dilakukan sekaligus seharusnya kena PPh 21 Final dengan tarif 5%. 50 juta pertama kena 0%, sisanya kena 5%. Final.

Kalau yang pencairan bertahap, selama masih dalam batas waktu 2 tahun dari pencairan pertama ke terakhir, harusnya masih tetap kena PPh 21 Final.

Kalau melihat kasus di bawah ini, kemungkinan pencairannya dilakukan bertahap dan jarak antar pencairannya lebih dari dua tahun sehingga tarif yang berlaku adalah tarif pasal 17 yang tidak final.

Tarif pasal 17 itu emang progresif sesuai dengan yang di dalam tabel. Harus dipastikan dulu sih waktu pencairannya.

[RAYA @awcancie]

Di indo dikatain “kadang org pinter teori gak bisa kerja” wkwkwkwk

[LBH👊 - Lembaga Baku Hantam👊 @askDika]

Jangan mau. Tumblr itu barang kepemilikan kita pribadi, ga ada hak orang maksa buat itu dititipin. Bahkan bioskop pun ga ada urusan geledah/periksa tas kita kl dia ada di dalem mall (krn udah diperiksa).

Nitipin F&B tuh risky bcs we don't know what people will do to that.

[A7MED @AKAGAMI__VOID]

ملخص كامل لانمي ناروتو..

[Cigs @cigsaftermilk]

suami bangkrut aja langsung kepikiran ganti suami… ini lagi ngarep mereka ngasih ginjal ke lakinya 😂

A man can love a thousand women and be ready to die for each of them.

A woman can love just one man and still not be willing to die for him.

[ega @fluoxetan]

dari kecil saya suka baca creepy pasta dan urban legend, tapi wallahi yang ini paling serem. to know that ini bukan fiksi. ini riwayat yang dialami Rasulullah (peace be upon him), bukan cerita internet, kek baru tau ada cerita creepy gini tertulis di Sahih Bukhari dan Sahih Muslim. sahabat Umar bin Khattab sampai curiga dia itu Al-Masih ad-Dajjal, sampe beliau meminta izin Rasulullah untuk membunuhnya, tapi Rasul gak izinin. “kalau dia memang Dajjal, kamu tidak akan mampu membunuhnya. kalau dia bukan Dajjal, tidak boleh membunuhnya”

terus mengenai identitasnya, Rasulullah juga gak langsung bilang iya atau enggak. kenapa gitu 😭😭😭😭😭
yang bikin merinding. bukan cuma kisah dan sosoknya, tapi identitas dia yang gak pasti juga yang gak dapet konfirmasi 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.

[rae_timzy @omo_Akinbile]

Adults are not supposed to be pediatricians
Adults are not supposed to be pediatricians

[adit surowidjojo @dittolongdit]

“kok lu nentang amat, kritis amat si sama MBG?”

[ega @fluoxetan]

statement “jangan nikah atau punya anak kalau miskin” itu classist dan dehumanizing. kekhawatiran dan standar pribadi lo gak seharusnya dipaksakan ke orang lain, apalagi dalam hal yang halal. definisi “mampu” juga beda-beda, gak bisa diseragamkan dan gak ada titik akhirnya, rezeki juga gak selalu stabil.
kebayang ada keluarga sederhana bonceng tiga naik motor, main ke alun-alun, makan batagor di rumput sambil ketawa-tawa. lalu anaknya mulai besar dan baca kalimat “orang tuamu seharusnya tidak punya anak karena miskin” atau “bapak lo seharusnya gak nikahin ibu lo” di internet. selama ini dia punya prasangka baik dan kenangan hangat, tapi beberapa kalimat bisa meruntuhkan itu semua, bahkan mengubah cara dia memandang orang tuanya sendiri. hati orang tua mana yang gak hancur, seakan yang dihitung cuman uang, bukan cinta, usaha, dan pengorbanan mereka selama ini. yang gue percaya, any sane parent would want the best for their child, life also doesnt always go according to human plans, there are things beyond our control that cant be reduced to rigid standards.

semua ini bukan berarti kita menolak ikhtiar perencanaan yah, tapi menyederhanakan nilai manusia hanya dari finansial itu gak adil buat buat gue. so please, maybe we can be more careful with our words, cobalah lebih berempati. di balik setiap keluarga, pasti ada usaha, cinta, ceritanya masing-masing yang gak keliatan buat lo, jangan lah direduksi jadi duit, duit, duit

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

Men are not "intimidated" by your degree, your corporate job, your tax bracket, or your fierce independence. They genuinely do not care about your resume. What modern women call "intimidation" is actually just a man walking away because your combative energy, constant need to argue, and refusal to yield is completely exhausting. You aren't intimidating; you are just insufferable to come home to.

[k @alfkkifine]

There is a whole generation of men out here who are absolutely exhausted from being the "transitional guy." They come into your life, absorb all the trauma your toxic ex left behind, provide stability, and love you gently. But because your brain is still addicted to chaos, you mistake his consistency for a lack of passion. You drain his peace to heal yourself, and then abandon him because there isn't enough "drama" to keep you entertained. Men are constantly being used as emotional handymen to fix damage they didn't cause, only to be discarded the second the foundation is stable. It is pure emotional vampirism.

[無 @smekdoncat]

I’ve lived long enough to watch so many hobbies die, killed by speculators, scalpers, and hyper consumerism that suck the fun out of them.

[lunar, certified mind blower 🌙 @satisfactorili]

benci banget liat perempuan yang ngebelain istrinya.

as a feminist yang mempercayai kesetaraan, kalian perempuan harus belajar menerima akuntabilitas. ga selamanya perempuan benar. perempuan itu makhluk yang berpikir.

kalau setiap salah maunya dimaklumi, kapan kita dihargai?

[Anish Moonka @anishmoonka]

The actual research is wild. Every time you push down a feeling, your brain has to choose between suppressing that emotion and recording what’s happening around you. It picks the suppression. The memory doesn’t get saved.

A 2000 Stanford study confirmed this: people told to hide their emotions while watching a film remembered far fewer details than people who just reacted naturally. Suppressing emotions uses up mental energy, and that leaves less brain power for saving new memories.

Brain scans show why. A 2012 study found that suppression quiets the hippocampus (your brain’s memory-recording center) right when it should be saving information. The two brain regions that normally team up to lock in memories stop talking to each other.

Over time it gets worse. Suppression keeps cortisol (the stress hormone) elevated, and cortisol shrinks the hippocampus. Chronically stressed people can lose 10 to 15% of its volume. Just three weeks of high cortisol can shrink the tiny connection points between brain cells by about 20%. The good news: studies show this shrinkage can partially reverse once stress levels drop. Not necessarily permanent.

A Finnish study of 1,137 older adults tracked over roughly a decade found that habitual emotion suppressors had nearly 5x the risk of developing dementia, even after controlling for genetics, smoking, obesity, and education.

There’s a better way to handle emotions that doesn’t cost you your memory. It’s called cognitive reappraisal: instead of bottling the feeling, you reframe what’s causing it. (“This meeting isn’t a threat, it’s practice.”) A 2003 Stanford/UC Berkeley study found reappraisers had more positive emotion, better relationships, and higher wellbeing. Suppressors got the opposite on every measure. And reappraisal carries zero memory cost.

The difference comes down to timing. Suppression kicks in after the emotion has already fired, so your brain is fighting its own response while simultaneously trying to record the moment. Reappraisal changes how you interpret the situation before the emotion fully activates. Same event, same person, but your hippocampus stays free to do its actual job: recording your life.

[. @aan__]

Nyoba indomie yg lg rame, goreng x kari ayam.

Kedua mie direbus biasa, tambah telor bakso. Bumbu2nya dicampur semua, cuma yg kari ayam 1/2 aja (takut keasinan). Kuahnya ku tuang dikit, jadi mienya nyemek.

8/10. Quite good👌🏻

[Asta Ebrahim @jellypastaa]

pasanganku punya pendapat, kalau kita mengalami mimpi yang mengerikan, dan kita terbangun, artinya kita mati di kehidupan sebelumnya.

misal, kita bermimpi dikejar penjahat, terus terpojok di gang buntu, si penjahat mendekat, lalu kita terbangun...

nah, kita mati di sana.

lalu hidup di kehidupan baru dan menganggap kehidupan sebelumnya cuma mimpi buruk.

karna cuitan ini, kami berdiskusi dan berdebat santai wkwkwkwkw

[ً @prinkasusa]

My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.