Cal 🌙🤍

Agender princess, god gamer, and proud cat father

[⋆˚🐾˖°Nyx°˖🐾˚⋆ @YumeNuit]

@rubynesoberi how it felt finding out marianas trench is practically unheard of outside of canada

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@zachheltzel @suchnerve I've only started realizing it when I've seen the same few accounts doing most of the replies. So disappointing to know I've fallen for it

[Pri💖 @Primiciarute_1]

Me irrita muito que tudo que é criado pra mulher, é feito pra ser enfiado dentro da gente, e se a gente opta por uma forma mais confortável somos julgadas.

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@BoyImGettinCash @JigolOwO @DavidDanielz @zei_squirrel Idk man, skipping over the western/Christel colonization of the entire world, which led toass rapes, pillaged, genocides, and focusing on the evangelical's modern favourite (Trump, Netanyahu) I'm *pretty* sure the number is a bit higher in the "Christian" camp

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@TrevorKnottOG @ndighweda Boy do I have news for you about a vast majority of Christian denominations

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

Oh sweet they dropped the official "allowed to date" list for bi men! So glad theyre allowed these designated choices and have their romantic relationships policed and monitored. I bet that's super cool!

[Patience...🪬 @Patiencexx4]

Bisexual men can have sex with

-Other bisexual men
-Gay men
-Bisexual women
-Pansexual men and women
-If theyre open to it, trans men and women (more of gender identity than sexuality)

But they're hounding straight women about not dating bisexual men. I do not get it smh

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@socfemoz @Bwd6998 You're right, the people anti bi people are turning it into bi people are saying it's harmful and thus make it about coercion

It's really about "yo, you can have your preference, but it doesn't mean it's not rooted in homophobia and enforcing traditional patriarchal roles"

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@Maggotsforwix @ExcelSolutovts @4srrne In the sense that we all have the choice of who we are with and that should be respected! Absolutely! But it has seemed that most have tried to reverse-victimize this as coercion (when it's obvi not) and/or have an inability to identify that yes, they *are* homophobic about it

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@Maggotsforwix @ExcelSolutovts @4srrne 17% + 13% + 9% + 9% + 8% + 4% + 3% + 2% + 2% + 1% + 1%

It's ALL preference anyways. And you're allowed to have the preference of "no bi men". You choose who to have relations with!

But that doesn't mean that it is free from being rooted in homophobia or bigotry

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

It's astounding to me that people will just say horrific biphobic vitriol and then pretend like they're the victims because they had to think about bi people lmao

It's fine if you dont want to date a bi person just admit your reasons are rooted in homophobia? It's that simple

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@Maggotsforwix @ExcelSolutovts @4srrne The same study everyone is quoting rn

Almost all the reasons given by the women in this study here are directly biphobic or rooted in biphobia

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@AlteradoLive @jo_schnitzel @Doc9413 @lostposs @LookAtMyMeat1 Dawg it's okay to say you were wrong and have been learned. It's not a big deal. You were obviously denying the possibility of them being sex workers and as existence as just bodyguards. You would have communicated differently otherwise, seeing as you've since displayed you can

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@Maggotsforwix @ExcelSolutovts @4srrne Not wanting to sleep with someone because they're bi and you think that is disgusting, makes them cheaters, makes them poly, etc (70% of the reasons given) IS homophobic.

No one is saying you aren't allowed preferences, but your preferences CAN be and are frequently biphobic

[Vivian @suchnerve]

Literacy crisis definitely plays a role, too: Interrogation of motive conflated with invalidation of agency. “I think your reason for making this choice is immoral” (in this case, being disgusted by a marginalized group) ≠ “You shouldn’t have the right to make the choice at all”

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@AppleSupport I literally only have one mac LMAO this is such a good example why this fucking company and everything to do with it is fucking crazy ass

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

Billions upon billions of dollar company btw @AppleSupport

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@btsovermorals @Alice936675585 It's also not 9%.

17% + 13% + 9% + 9% + 8% + 4% + 3% + 2% + 2% + 1% + 1%

Not able to calculate what is hidden biphobia from the bottom 3 15%

So at best you're looking at around 70-80% of these responses

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@btsovermorals @Alice936675585 You're arguing a point no one is fighting just to try and highlight the dangers men have and still do bring to women. That's great! We all agree on that!

But you've done nothing of any note to the discussion at the table, which is the constant biphobic reasoning to avoid bibmen

[Cal 🌙🤍 @divacreature]

@btsovermorals @Alice936675585 Notice how a minority of the reasons given don't fit some form of harmful trope onto bi men

Don't get me wrong, men are perpetrators of significant harm to women, but you'll note that the majority of reasons cited by both sexes perpetuate non-fact or biphobic reasons