I don't believe in revenge but I do believe if you entered my life with bad intentions and tried to take advantage of my kindness in any way, you will eventually reap what you attempted to sow.
crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.
To me a male centered woman is a woman that will literally throw anyone under the bus for a man, they’re calling you male centered if you have any interactions with men at all loooll like we’ve lost the plot
calling out shitty behavior isn’t starting problems. i’m genuinely curious.. how long am i supposed to stay passive before i’m allowed to address an issue? because somehow people are fine with the behavior itself but the moment it’s acknowledged out loud suddenly that’s the problem.
look the rich don’t split bills, that’s why they’re richer than you.
you spend 30 mins at dinner calculating who ordered what, wealthy people just pick up the whole bill with no calculator, no awkward convo or annoying gestures, they even leave bigger tip than expected.
my dad taught me something i’ll never forget: the person who fights over small money will never be trusted with big money.
being cheap is expensive.
it costs you opportunities, relationships, goodwill and trust. refuse to be cheap.
Another side of the friendship experiences I’ve had:
When I found my backbone & addressed my issues with friendships (mommy issues)
I found that deciding you don’t want to be close to, or remain close to, certain women is treated as a personal attack by them
The clique says no
📌Just because I did it then, doesn’t mean I condone it now. Just because I once thought it was okay then doesn’t mean I still think it’s okay now. Just because something was once normal to me doesn’t make it normal now. Things change when you mature. Your personality, the way you carry yourself, the way you think and act.
Don’t come throwing my past in my face simply because you haven’t grown.
If you don’t learn independence and don’t learn how to make things happen for yourself, you’ll stay around people that keep hurting you because you don’t believe you can make it out here on your own.
the internets version of tradwife failed because it thought the point was submission and dresses when the real thing was sacred order, devotion, and making the home feel less spiritually bankrupt
i literally don’t care to be your friends. most of the people who fit in really well in current society have either no backbone or are adult bullies. men and women. many of you suck and clique up with other people who suck just like you
the thing about really committing yourself to healing, unlearning dysfunctional habits, and relearning how to communicate and regulate and be a truly safe person is that you are going up against a huge percentage of people who are NOT doing that work at all and that is not easy.