Everyone is in ur life for a Reason. For a season. For a Time. Not every relationship is supposed to last forever. People heal & Move. We learn & Move
Yes, at the end of the tunnel, there is light; but what they didn't tell you is how long or short the tunnel will be. That's why giving up is not an option. You might be so close to the light or still far from it, but eventually, the tunnel will end. Keep pressing on.
And sometimes we have to remind ourselves that we are not responsible for other people's poor behaviour, gaslighting, manipulation or unkindness. That's on them. What is on us is how we respond, set boundaries, know our worth, and protect our peace.
I’m in love with this quote:
"If God can take away something you never imagined losing, then surely God can grant you something you never imagined gaining." 🕊️
If you’ve genuinely tried to fix a relationship.. communicated, adjusted, showed up and nothing changes, then accept what you’re dealing with. Not everything is meant to be repaired. Some situations stay broken no matter how much effort you pour into them. At that point, continuing to force it only drains you. Leave it alone and stop investing where there is no return.
Accountability is so important to me. Nobody is perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.
Honestly, if you know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
You cannot rush life. Things happen when they are supposed to. Your role is to show up every day and give it your best. Your best won’t be the same every day. Some days you’ll feel motivated, and others you’ll feel defeated—and that’s life. Keep going.
People are having a very stressful life already. If you don't have good intentions towards them, please just leave them alone, don't add to the stress.
My favorite part of the resurrection is when they went back and didn’t find Jesus where they left Him! Don’t let anybody find you where they left you. Elevate! He got up! You can too! Nothing is too hard for my God!
Being committed to one person is a very beautiful thing. Don't let damaged people and Infidelity addicts lie to you, there is absoultely nothing better than having a best friend and a lover in one person.
A man who studies his own patterns with brutal honesty eventually becomes harder to manipulate, because once he understands where he typically bends, panics, or seeks comfort, he can anticipate his own weaknesses and close the gaps before someone else exploits them.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away, pointing fingers, that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.