A husband who is providing is equal with the wife. But when the wife is providing, equality goes out the window and he doesn't deserve respect.
We all know what we are doing. People need to pay attention to what people are saying and what they aren't saying
Let people assume whatever they want about you. You’re not responsible for their assumptions and whatever else they think they know about you and who you’re supposed to be. You can’t stop them anyway. It has nothing to do with who you really are. Just live.