Girl to girl; Never go missionary with a sneaky link, and if you eventually do, pls avoid eye contact and don't let him lean over to kiss you. There's a why🤧...stay safe sisters
I dated an avoidant for almost a year and it genuinely fucked with my head.
At the beginning she was so into me. Constant texts, deep talks, future plans.
Then the second things got real, she started pulling away. She would say she needed space or that she wasn’t ready.
Radio silence for days.
Every time I tried to communicate, I became the too much guy. I started doubting myself and thinking I was the problem for wanting basic consistency.
Staying friends with someone you have so many feelings for is way harder than you think, especially when every conversation feels like a reminder of what you can't have.
I cannot be “just friends” with someone I actually want romantically; I will just disappear from your life.
I think it’s a good thing he was honest with you.