Being a manager at work you have to deal with people calling out. Which I don’t care call off idgaf that’s your money… but some of the lies people tell me I feel like they playing with my intelligence
Someone told me family doesn’t make decisions for you based on what is best for you, but rather for their own safety and convenience. Once I realized that, I stopped giving a fuck
Nobody can tell me how I should feel about anything. You don’t get to decide what I should overlook, what I should forgive, or what I should be okay with. We don’t think the same, we don’t value the same things, and we don’t see life the same way. Just because you’re okay with something doesn’t mean I have to be. You got your standards, and I got mine.
I think that in real life.... Relationships r like. Your partner WILL 'trauma dump' on you. You will have to perform 'emotional labor' for your partner. Your partner will make mistakes. You will also do all of these things. The very nature of love is irrational and problematic and difficult.... To expect a relationship to be free of these things is strange to me.... The point is that your relationship to that person is ultimately worth it, and worth growing with them, helping each other, seeing the worst parts of another person and being able to love them anyway