its just weird to me how getting a relationship for one specific reason is somehow condemned over others. and like I said sex is a two way streak she's getting pleasure for it too. Like you off on seeing your girl turned on by you. both of you guys are enjoying it. Women loved to be objectified and desired by the guy they want. Don't believe me? try turning a girl down who wants to have sex with you and see how mad or insecure she feels about it.
Society always frame sex as if its just mans benefit yeah theres some guys who are ok with starfish sex where the chick ain't to it but that shit is wack.
right exactly. When people are in a relationship they're looking for some perceived benefit that they either can't get somewhere else, would cost higher to get somewhere else, or they're attracted to the person etc. nobody gets in a relationship where they feel its one sided. with the man it may be sex with the woman it could be his charm, money, good looks, or a combination.
if she feels one of those things are falling short then she's probably going to leave but no1 calls her shallow or wrong for doing it. Only when a man does it for sex.
@Mmesoma_001@Justice_099 What else does a chick have that you can't get somewhere else other than sex? I heard women say this but they rarely make the case of what else they bring to the table that we can't get somewhere else.
@Mmesoma_001 so does that mean she owes him sex then? I thought a woman never owes a man sex? lol. its funny how its transactional when its her benefit but never when its for his benefit. LOL.πΉ.
Yeah cause women don't wanna be alone. they'll be in a sexless relationship (in fact they're the one 9/10 leading the no sex in the relationship anyways) but if she's not having sex with that guy its usually because the relationship is dead it just hasn't officially ended yet or they're just tolerating each other.
Either way if she's not having sex with the guy its generally because she's not attracted to him anymore for whatever reason. This somehow fatansy of "women are better cause they're not leaving for sex' is nonsense everyone is in a relationship, friendship, whatever for self-interested reasons and theres nothing wrong with that.
This ridiculous. Sex is what makes a relationship a relationship. No sex is just glorified roommates or friend zoning. And I got plenty of friends already why do I need chick friend? Unless I'm just not attracted to you then sure it may work then but if I'm attracted to like no you're gonna blue balls me.
And again why do we assume it's only guys who want sex. Girls like sex too it's not a one sided game. There's girls who will leave too if there's no sex and understandable so.
@xoeeie Well she's still in the relationship so obviously it's not an issue. If it's an issue for you then don't get with a man like this. Simple. No1 ones forcing you to be there you can leave at any time.
Ehh I never considered myself the provider anyways. And plus people get in relationships for mutual benefit. Why should the relationship only be one sided? Humans are self-interested you wouldn't get in a relationship that purposely makes your life worse nor should you if there's no preceived value.
They're standards are too high they just got bad game. When I see baddies with fat dudes, disabled dudes, midgets, guys who are below average, short dudes etc. I don't wanna hear any night's tell me that mine or someone else standards are too high if those mofos are pulling baddies your standards probably aren't high enough. You just need to work on on your approach.
But everything else you said I agree with it is mostly in the mind but that whole high standard for what you look like is bullshit when there's dudes with straight up disabilities and disfigured faces pulling models.
@woealoe If abortion was included in those states and inficides the numbers wouldn't even be close to the murders women commit. But hoes like to change definition when it's convienent.
@Crustology_ Yet when men cheat. Women are never told to question why he decided to get laid somewhere else. Yall are so full of shit it's amazing how hoes even have bowel movements.π€£π€£
@SocratesSword At this point nobody should vote because people vote with their emotions anyways and against their freedoms. And no let people keep talking about it. Elections are as fake as Hillary Clinton's marriage.
We only harass you because you don't show the same grace for men with mental health. Take this exact same senerio with Lindsay literally the exact same senerio and only difference it's Lawrence and it's a dude all of you hoes would be calling for his execution. That's where problem lies. Grace for women but it's the devil if it's a man.
If the standard was applied both ways you'd hear no complaints from me.