DEE GIST🌐

relationship, marriage, parenting, Twitter educator, responder, digital creator and coach.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Let me state this clearly: in 2026, I won’t be minding my business. I’ll be speaking on marriage, relationships, politics, business, and everything in between. Comfort won’t guide me truth will. If honest conversations make you uncomfortable, get ready anyway.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

At the same time, if your daughter is still young and needs help with bathing, it may be worth considering whether the rule is achieving what you want without unnecessarily creating tension between you and your husband. Parenting decisions that affect both parents often work best

[Joy Oforezika @oforezika]

I was having a zoom meeting when my daughter screamed. I have to pause to check on her.

Apparently my husband wanted bathing her because I was busy. She have just returned from school.

I shot both of them a daring glance and the house went quiet. My husband has been moody all day because I made a law never to bath any female child in our house.

He said I am making him a threat to his kids. Is there a better way to explain my reasons to him because I don't know how to start.

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

One thing I need people to understand is this:

A woman cheating on a man does not automatically mean the man was weak, foolish, desperate, or a simp.

Too often, when a man is betrayed, people rush to analyse him instead of the person who made the choice to cheat. They start asking what he did wrong, what signs he missed, or how he somehow caused it.

The truth is that you can choose carefully and still be betrayed.

You can love sincerely and still be betrayed.

You can be faithful, supportive, responsible, and committed and still be betrayed.

A person’s decision to cheat is not always a reflection of the quality of their partner.

Sometimes it is simply a reflection of their own character, discipline, values, and choices.

There are men who married women they genuinely believed were right for them. They did their due diligence. They asked questions. They met the family. They invested emotionally. They committed fully.

Yet some of those same women still went back to an ex, entertained another man, or crossed boundaries they knew should never have been crossed.

That does not mean the husband failed.

It means the wife made a decision.

We need to stop acting as though every act of infidelity is proof that the betrayed partner was lacking in some way. Human beings have free will. People can be given love and still choose selfishness. They can be treated well and still make destructive decisions.

Holding people accountable for their own actions should not be controversial.

If a woman cheats, the responsibility for that choice belongs first and foremost to the woman who cheated.

You can learn lessons from the experience. You can reflect on the relationship. You can identify red flags you may have missed.

But not every betrayal is a consequence of poor partner selection.

Sometimes you chose the best you could with the information you had, and the other person chose to betray your trust.

Those are two completely different things.

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[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

This video broke my heart
chai🥺💔💔💔

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

This is the current level of empathy of the average Nigerian.

Humanity 0%
Materialism 1000000%

This an accident scene involving a commuter vehicle and fuel tanker.

What did supposed human being do?

Locals rushed to the scene to rescue the leaking fuel leaving out the human

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

casualties who are injured, groaning, unconscious and requiring emergency aid.

Humans that could have been saved are neglected to die by supposed humans in pursuit of Materialism.

All these people in this video are animals wearing human bodies. Nothing anybody wan tell me.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

This is the current level of empathy of the average Nigerian.

Humanity 0%
Materialism 1000000%

This an accident scene involving a commuter vehicle and fuel tanker.

What did supposed human being do?

Locals rushed to the scene to rescue the leaking fuel leaving out the human

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

@jon_d_doe That is the part many people struggle with today. Everyone wants perfect partners while forgetting they are imperfect themselves.

This mindset does not mean accepting disrespect or toxicity. It simply means understanding that healthy marriages are partnerships, not competitions.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Problems usually begin when people try to buy love, ignore red flags, or sacrifice beyond their capacity just to keep someone around.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Problems usually begin when people try to buy love, ignore red flags, or sacrifice beyond their capacity just to keep someone around.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Some of you have already spent the school fees worth of your future children for 5 years, on women that you're not even sure would become your wives.

Foolish men.

End.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

@jon_d_doe The real lesson should be balance and wisdom:
Don’t bankrupt your future trying to impress someone today.
Don’t neglect your goals, savings, responsibilities, or personal growth because of emotional pressure or validation.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Too many people enter relationships with a transactional mindset, as though love is a business investment that must yield profits or be refunded if things go wrong. But genuine relationships are built on mutual sacrifice, support, growth, loyalty, and shared responsibility

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Too many people enter relationships with a transactional mindset, as though love is a business investment that must yield profits or be refunded if things go wrong. But genuine relationships are built on mutual sacrifice, support, growth, loyalty, and shared responsibility

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If my lovely wife leaves me today for any reasons best known to her.

You won't see me come online to cry.

I did not pay her school fees.

I did not pay her rent while dating her.

I did not buy her phones while dating her.

I did not give her money for hair while dating her.

I did not give her family shishi while dating her.

I did not send her tfare while dating her.

I did not halt my growth or career while dating her and even in marriage.

Everything that I have ever done for her, I did them because she invested in me and sacrificed for me.

And because she's raising responsible children for me and taking good care of me as her husband and father to our children.

So I'll not have any regrets that I wasted money.

Because I didn't put the cart before the horse.

And I'll co-parent with her in peace because she's a good mother.

I don't even mind willing some of my assets to her, even as an ex wife.

When I tell you that I am blessed by God with a wife, I am not joking.

I know who I married, and I cannot deceive myself for public validation.

She's not a perfect woman, but she's a woman that I have embraced her imperfections wholeheartedly.

End.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

@jon_d_doe That is the part many people struggle with today. Everyone wants perfect partners while forgetting they are imperfect themselves.

This mindset does not mean accepting disrespect or toxicity. It simply means understanding that healthy marriages are partnerships, not competitions.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

What is needed is honesty, communication, counseling, and understanding what caused the breakdown in the relationship. Marriage problems are usually deeper than just the physical side.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

What is needed is honesty, communication, counseling, and understanding what caused the breakdown in the relationship. Marriage problems are usually deeper than just the physical side.

[Àlúbàríkà 🇳🇬 @Iyoaiye_]

No S£xxx for 9months now, yet am married and living with my husband.

He has refused to touch me for 9months now, he goes our and comes back late every day.He brings M0ney for food yet no communication

I have 2boys for him

I have béggéd to know if I offended him yet he didn't say anything. I have never disobeyed my husband before.I have tried all the tricks I know yet he keeps ignoring me

Once he is back, will shower and eat his food that I cook and straight to his room and lock the door.

What do I do, am really starving plzzz Ma'am what else can I do to get his attention

-Chidimma Eunice

@spynigeriang

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

See what loan app did to a woman🙆‍♂️

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

What terrorists are doing in Nigeria, and the government are pardoning them, paying them ransom 😭😭🤮🤮🤮

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

@Jaymes3x @TheOdin_II Sometimes attraction can build over time when there’s strong connection, but that only happens if there’s at least a baseline spark. If there’s none at all, it’s better to be honest.

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Growth requires humility. Love requires understanding. And healthy relationships require two people who are willing to listen, reflect, and take responsibility.

Protect your peace. Not everyone deserves unlimited access to it.

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[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

Pride and ego have destroyed more relationships than most people care to admit.

The truth is, not every broken relationship is due to lack of love sometimes it’s because one or both people are unwilling to let go of their ego. Many people today carry a sense of entitlement

[DEE GIST🌐 @dmsdeking1]

who avoids honest conversations, and constantly plays the victim will slowly drain your peace without you even realizing it. You’ll find yourself explaining, adjusting, and overextending, while they remain unchanged.

Be mindful of such individuals.