As a black person man or woman, self regulation =sustainable survival. This system was DESIGNED to BREAK us. Too bad we're made up of the most unbendable and unbreakable genetic material on this planet.
As Black Queer men, many of us had to work hard af to get the careers, lifestyles, (and lowkey the approval from our families) we have now. You think a n*gga wants to then take care of someone else after all that?
Hell nah. We both contributing in this household 🙅🏾♂️😂