Real nggas don’t live double lives. They say who they fw, how they fw them, and let the cards fall where they may. If you gotta lie, sneak, and manipulate just to keep access… you not real, you just scared of consequences😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
The funny thing is when you find that mature partner and the relationship is healthy, you start to see everything wrong with you. The good part is you become intentional about working on your flaws, because you know the last thing you want is to lose them.
One of my favorite versions of me is the one how I get when I don’t like something/someone anymore & decide it’s no longer my business. The exit is very clean
Higher education exposes you to more awareness, self-analysis, and questioning. Which can make you less willing to tolerate certain things. Being uneducated doesn’t mean you’re dumb; it just means you’re less likely to over-intellectualize every disagreement. Some couples simply live instead of debating everything.
The Bible is so clear on how important it is never to look back. Not at an old position, an old ex, an old friendship, or even old ways that God has brought you out of. There are many people in the Bible but in clear words, God tells us to "remember Lot's wife"; who turned into a pillar of salt! Stuck in time. I pray that when you're tempted to "go back", he reminds you that you have so much to look forward to.
Consideration.
If you really love someone, you consider them. You think before you speak, and you move with an awareness of how your actions affect their peace. You care about what makes them feel safe, not just what makes you feel good. If you truly love them, you think about how your actions will affect them.