your only way to gain any accruate insight into a womans true sexual history is if you start dating her casually and that she sees you as a non judgemental fuckboy
then you sporadically ask questions in a super non judgemental way (i.e. "have you ever had a one night stand? i def have lol")
if you come in like "yea i want a low bodycount girl & i only date intentionally" she will present herself like a vigrin and youll never know she got one-night-standed by LMM before you wifed her up
sleeping with chad doesnt make her think she can lock down chad
she accepts this after a long enough time in the dating market, eventually knowing the level of guy she can realistically lock down
thats why women are actually OKAY with getting one night-standed by a guy they think is way above them
i agree with this to an extent
slavic & latina women can adopt a very performative femininity about them
like they know western guys gush over how "traditional and feminine" they are and so they play into, very explicitly too e.g. "women belong in the kitchen!"
but they do it cuz they know inexperienced western dudes will idealize them and fall fast for them, getting them to simp
that being said, this isnt the majority of them and most are just typical women
but rule of thumb is the closer to poverty a woman is and the more impoverished her country, the more she is in true "survival mode" and will lie however much she needs to secure the bag from unassuming passport dudes. cant blame them either
sleeping with chad doesnt make her think she can lock down chad
she accepts this after a long enough time in the dating market, eventually knowing the level of guy she can realistically lock down
thats why women are actually OKAY with getting one night-standed by a guy they think is way above them
yeah..especially after breakups with "chads"
after women feel rejected from a guy they view as valuable, they will go out and sail the seven seas of dick to feel sexy again
conversely, if she broke up with the nice guy provider she wont feel the need to whore around as much (and she also likely already lined a guy up during the relationship)
this girl i banged was super dry and seemingly disinterested over text before we met
after we banged a few times she warmed up a lot
she told later it was all a front and that as a girl, you "have to pretend like you arent that intetested"
as long as she complies and is responive is all that really matters
@nbaischeeks@AcctPogo theres a difference between rewarding behavior and just moving a convo forward
the point of my reply was that as long as she complies just keep pushing it forward and ignore her fake disinterest
@WestsideLAGuy especially given how simpy men in tech are
id wager they are actually the most simpy men of all high earning career professionals
being a modestly above average woman in tech gaurantees access to the most elite tech jobs
@BradleyGrey_ 1.) she views me as her dream man. from the day we met she viewed me as kinda out of her leauge and she feels accomplished for getting me to commit
2.) good genes for our babies (intelligence and health)
3.) minimal history of being a party girl/hoe.
@honeyNonABG if a woman wants to marriagemaxx then yes abstaining from casual sex with random chads WILL make her far more valuable to the vast majority high value, marriage -minded guys
so its a good play
doesnt take a genius to know a hoe wouldnt make a good housewife
@MasculinePeak women are praying an attactive guy with a sexy vibe comes along and gives them the time of their life
all you gotta do its
1.) become that kinda guy
2.) meet more women
doing a lot of 2 will help you become 1
@YBCTooCold yeah man its really f*cked up
any attempt at being positive is just COPE
men are extremely defeated & emasculated more than ever
but the worst thing is how men dont support each other or encourage each other
its no cool to be uplifting & and if you youre just "coping"
@WestsideLAGuy thats about ~33 new girls a year
thats honestly the perfect rate IMO
makes the year exciting and filled with new women and experiences but still gives you enough time for your career, stay healthy, and develop meaningful situationships w/ the girls you really like
@TheCreatordxxd@greatjobhansel but its also dudes dating DOWN cause they have trash game and low confidence so all they can get is a girl 3 points below their level
@coachgregadams well, some relationships are more transactional than others
but ALL relationships are a transaction of VALUE
what value do you bring to a woman and what value does she bring to you?
For a lot of guys, their only value is money while for other guys their value is sex
@greatjobhansel women just cant be honesy w themselves and what they like
they feel guilty for liking fuckboys and constantly being played by them
so they larp and pretend that they actually like nice provider guys