A man says he was voluntarily paying his child’s mother $300 a week, but after asking for just two months to get back on his feet financially, she filed for child support and the court ultimately ordered him to pay only $13 a month.
Once you learn how to shop directly from China, E.g Temù or shien your wardrobe changes completely. Call me cheap I don't care I ain't rich, I don't do fraud.😭
It's knowing what to search for.
Here's my style after making plenty of mistakes.
1. T-shirts:
Skip 100% polyester unless you're buying gym wear.
Instead, search:
• 100% Cotton
• Combed Cotton
• Heavyweight Cotton
• 240-300 GSM Cotton
• Premium Cotton
• Mercerized Cotton
The heavier the GSM, the thicker and more premium the shirt usually feels.
2. Jeans:
Denim Jeans
Temu is surprisingly good for denim if you know what to search.
Search:
• Denim Jeans
• Cotton Denim
• Raw Denim
• Selvedge Denim (if available)
• 98% Cotton + 2% Elastane
• 99% Cotton
Avoid jeans with high polyester content. The more cotton, the better they'll age and feel.
3. Body-hug clothing:
Search:
• Ribbed Knit
• Modal
• Viscose Blend
• Cotton-Spandex Blend
They hold their shape much better than cheap polyester.
4. Hoodies
Search:
• 400 GSM
• French Terry
• Cotton Fleece
• Heavyweight Hoodie
5. Chains
Search:
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Titanium Steel
• PVD Gold Plated
• Vacuum Plated
These are far more resistant to fading than ordinary fashion jewelry.
6. Earrings
Search:
• 925 Sterling Silver
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Hypoallergenic
• Moissanite (if you're buying stones)
7. Scarves
Search:
• Mulberry Silk
• Silk Blend
• Cashmere Blend
• Wool Blend
• Viscose
Avoid the shiny, thin polyester scarves if you're after a premium look.
8. Loafers
Search:
• Genuine Leather
• Cow Leather
• Full Grain Leather (rare but worth looking for)
• Rubber Outsole
9. Sneakers
Search:
• Rubber Outsole
• EVA Midsole
• Breathable Mesh
• Leather Upper
• Stitched Sole
Pictures lie a lot
The description usually tells the truth.
Here's how I shop:
1. Read the material composition before anything else.
2. Sort by Most Orders or Best Selling, not cheapest.
3. Only buy products with lots of reviews or pictures or even better when a Nigerian has purchased it before they always tell the truth.
4. Read the 1-star reviews first. They'll tell you what the seller won't.
5. Look at customer photos, not the product photos.
6. Check the weight of the product. Better quality clothing is often heavier.
7. Read the size chart. Don't assume your Nigerian size matches.
8. If the title has words like "luxury," "premium," or "designer" but the material is 100% polyester, not everything but still move on.
Your best friend isn't the product picture.
It's the material, the reviews, and the customer photos.
That's how you separate the gems from the junk.
I hope this help.
Things are to expensive for a country this poor.
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
DJ Cuppy is the daughter of a billionaire father named Femi Otedola. Regular men know that she is out of their league. They are under no illusion that they can bag her, so they stay in their lane.
Men are very logical. They don't live in lala land like women. An average man will not embark on such a fruitless journey.
However, most women don’t understand this reality. 95% of Nigerian women are praying to have a rich dude like Rema. They keep thinking that a wealthy guy out there is going to come to their ghetto and rescue them out of poverty.
This girl is currently dating one of these Abuja rich kids here in Abuja. I’ve known her for over a year now, the guys spends lavishly on her while I enjoy the middleman(side guy) benefits.
She told her guy she was going to see her sick cousin, meanwhile she was coming to spend the weekend with me after we’ve planned on how to eat each other out.
When she got here the boyfriend called to know if she got to her destination safe, she told him there’s no food in the house that she needed some cash to get food for herself and the sick cousin sister being me and the boyfriend sent her ₦100k like it was nothing.
We bought enough food and after dinner I had her too for another round of dinner, made sure I fvcked the shit out of her last night.
This morning her boyfriend’s call woke us up and bro had already ordered breakfast for the girlfriend and myself thinking it’s her sick cousin.
Being a middleman is just the best, no drama no arguments, just sex and vibes whenever the girl visits.
I pity the guy dating her sha……
If my date asked me to get tested before we had sex, I wouldn't be offended. I'd be very impressed. To me, asking someone to get tested doesn't suggest you have a negative opinion of them. It indicates that you're sensible, cautious and proactive about sexual health.