a useful tip when going through the often grueling process of transition is to effectively view your current self as a flesh puppet whose prime directive is to become a real person.
"voice training is uncomfy" my discomfort doesn't matter, i am unsouled until transitioned
trivial argument with my gf descended into such phrases as "we need to cross the pervert rubicon, as it were" and "you're using transhumanism to defend the google glass"