Girl, how he treats you is how he feels about you. If he isn’t calling, he doesn’t want to talk. If he isn’t planning, he doesn’t see you in his plans. If he isn’t consistent, he doesn’t value your peace. Stop begging for effort that should come naturally.
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you,he moves different on his own. Life's too short to be waiting for someone to act right!
Date soft women and treat them as princesses. They're fragile. Do not yell at them. Talk to them softly. Tease them. Flirt with them regularly and spoil them. Don't let laughter leave their lips. You'll enjoy them.
You can tell when a man is serious by how he handles your feelings during disagreements. Players care about winning. Good men care about understanding.
What a privilege it is to afford a gym, buy healthy food, pay bills, have legs that walk, eyes that see, a brain that functions, work every day, and take our bodies to their full potential.