MrsP

A married couple living in a 24/7 FLR d/s marriage where she makes all the decisions.

[MrsP @dominantinrl]

A turnoff? The second domme, no. The secret, yes. His girlfriend is submissive herself, so this likely won't shock her. What she may not forgive is hearing it late, or from someone else. Secrets don't get to live in my house: https://t.co/ZpSk5NtZMv

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[MrsP @dominantinrl]

Orgasm denial is trendy, so it's become the default package, like it's entry-level submission. It isn't. A sub telling you what doesn't work for them is information, not a challenge. I'd take that over someone who'll endure anything to keep a dom happy.

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[MrsP @dominantinrl]

I feel for him. He's fighting his own sexuality like an enemy, and avoiding every trigger just makes it the center of his life. A kink you keep secret and feed with shame will run you. Mine lives in the open and behaves just fine.

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[MrsP @dominantinrl]

When someone wants a domme, they talk to the title. When they want to know you, they talk to the woman. It's why so many men get scammed too — if you've never talked to a dominant woman about groceries, you don't know what normal looks like.

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[MrsP @dominantinrl]

All his money is mine. I run the accounts, he keeps a small allowance, and past it he asks first instead of explaining after. Not because I need his salary. It keeps the order of things obvious. The rest of our rules: https://t.co/ZpSk5NtZMv

[MrsP @dominantinrl]

I don't need a suit to run my house. But she's right about the headspace. Clothes are a ritual, and rituals do something real to your head. Kink figured this out long ago — nobody asks whether a collar 'really counts.' Wear the suit.

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[MrsP @dominantinrl]

The milk will distract everyone, and it shouldn't. A kink that runs on months of trust and showing up asks more of a person than half the respectable-looking ones do. You can't fake either part. Wanting that isn't weird. It's just specific.

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[MrsP @dominantinrl]

The cage stays on. I decide when it comes off, and why. Sometimes because I want him. Sometimes because I want him thinking about me all day. People ask what I get out of keeping him in chastity. That. All of that.

[MrsP @dominantinrl]

Kink isn't a project management system. But when two people still care, it's a good way to start actually seeing each other again. In our house the marriage came first, and the dynamic grew out of it. I write about that here: https://t.co/ZpSk5NtZMv

[MrsP @dominantinrl]

Nothing is wrong with you. Wanting to submit in play and nowhere else is a real way to do this, not a watered-down version. I live the full-time version and I promise it isn't the entry requirement. The loudest people in kink spaces aren't the standard.

[MrsP @dominantinrl]

My husband broke one of our rules a while back and confessed days later. His first version was true, just carefully small. The full story had a few more clicks in it. The minimizing bothered me more than the breaking did. I expect the whole truth, not a lighter version.

[MrsP @dominantinrl]

A 24/7 FLR sounds exhausting from the outside. It isn't, because there's nothing to perform. Decisions have an owner, that's all. He works, sees friends, lives a normal life. The final word happens to be mine.

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