The older i get, the more i realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities & their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, & makes space for you in their life, it means something. time is one thing we can never get back, & people don't give it away lightly.
for me personally detachment gue muncul dari adanya rasa kekecewaan/capek, bisa ke orang atau apapun itu. Kdg terlalu capek dgn kecewa berulang, akhirnya gue gampang bgt detach sesuatu, which can be good but starter pointnya comes from a wrecked heart&soul first haha
@SAIBdelvi dulu aku orgnya attached bgt sama someone or something. tapi setelah hancur berkali" karena attachment itu gatau kenapa sekarang jd gampang detached. mungkin karena uda capek ngulang hal yg sama atau krna faktor usia aja makin mature cara mikirnya
wkwk im sure kalo diceritain background storynya sampai akhirnya jadi org easily detached tuh panjang sekali dan painful. berkali2 dihajar hidup dan dikecewakan org sekitar, lama2 menyelamatkan diri sendiri menjadi sebuah kebiasaan dan mudah dilakukan
Kalo nobody, poor family, no ordal, no sodara, nothing.. udahlah masuk teknik aja yg lebih egaliter daripada soshum.
Gak usah ikut2an organisasi juga gapapa, kejar ipk 4 lalu kerja di migas/tambang.
Mereka ga peduli bacaanmu apa, gak peduli ideologimu apa, gak peduli apakah kamu cancel penulis X atau musisi Y.