This is the reason why i decided to quit fangirling.
My cousin send me these screenshots of her mom's message to her after she cried in front of her mom begging to let her go to Donny's M&G tom.
THIS KINDA HITS ME REALLY HARD. π’
I've read a blog 'bout fixing relationship w/ family and one of the steps there was--
Eliminate or (somehow minimize) the things that caused u to probably forgotten how to interact with ur family personally. which is (what I did most of the time on internet)& it was.. FANGIRLING
Uyy donny fam anuba! Alam niyong lahat, lalo na ng mga mutuals ko na qaqo ako pero ayon nga! minsan lumalabas talaga tong soft side ko kasi one of my weakness is seeing my parents being sad kainis huhuhu
If you're doubting kung totoo ba na may ganitong kind of message well guys, don't. Coz this is 100% legit na minessage siya ng ganito ng mommy niya. May mga ganitong parents parin talaga. Maybe ganyan din nafefeel ng parents niyo but they didnt want to confront you. Talk to them. https://t.co/bSxFbW36ni
This is the reason why i decided to quit fangirling.
My cousin send me these screenshots of her mom's message to her after she cried in front of her mom begging to let her go to Donny's M&G tom.
THIS KINDA HITS ME REALLY HARD. π’
But still, I'm always rooting for you @donnypangilinan I'm ALWAYS your fan! Yung sarili ko/ yung way ko ng pagfafan lang babaguhin ko pero hinding hindi magbabago yung fact na "I'll always believe in you" i love you β€
Di masamang mag-fangirl, in fact ang saya. Pero minsan yung paraan ng pagfafangirl naten is way too much na hindi naten namamalayan, may mga taong nasasaktan na tayo.
And sa mga magtatanong kung anong kinalaman neto kung bakit ako magki-quit sa fangirling.. i know fangirling life makes me so happy, Donny and my mutuals makes me so happy and I am so glad to meet them.
But.. It was just a random realization for ME and an eye-opener.
Hindi sa sinasabing masamang iyakan para lang payagan ka pero yung ipipilit mo kahit hindi talaga pwede is too much. Our parents have their own reasons. We have no idea on how they really feel kapag sinusuway naten sila. π