Marry a kind man o…
I was involved in a gas explosion that had both legs burned. Both my legs were bandaged and for days I couldn’t walk.
My husband doesn’t know how to cook but before I said I was hungry, he would have ordered food.
One day he came home with two different pure aloe Vera extract gels and two pots of the aloe Vera plant. He said he heard that aloe Vera helps to heal burns..
The next day someone delivered a big bottle of honey .. my husband said. Another person told him honeys was good for burns but most honey they sold were fake so he ordered some from a vendor in the village that harvests the honey by herself… I asked how much he bought it.. he said it was expensive but I shouldnt worry, my healing was his priority .
On one of those days I couldn’t walk, I woke up in the midnight and needed to pee, my husband had worked till very late at night so he slept off in his work space. I called for him to come carry me but he couldn’t hear me, so I dragged myself to the bathroom in pain when I got back to the bed I had peed a little on myself and cleaning up without being able to walk or stand felt impossible… I immediately started to cry… my crying woke my husband up and he rushed into the room asking if I was okay… he kept apologizing for sleeping off in his work space while cleaning me up and cleaning my tears…
When a man is unkind he knows he is unkind. A kind man will never hold back or give excuses.
Anuoluwatimileyin Oko mi. God bless the day you gave me your party rice 😍😍
Marriag is a partnership
1. But your 'partner' who does not have money will not partner with you if you do not have money
2. Your 'partner' who does not have an apartment will not partner with you if you do not have an apartment
3. Your 'partner' who does not have a car will not partner with you if you do not have a car
4. Your 'partner' who is incompetent, will not partner with you if you are incompetent
5. Your 'partner's' money belongs to her, but your money belongs to the partnership
6. As you pour your money into the partnership, your 'partner' is pouring hers into her own family
7. You are expected to also cook, and clean the baby's poo, but she is not expected to also debug code, edit your videos, prepare your proposals, respond to clients, run your ad campaigns, build financial models, forecast market movements, backtest your trading strategy, negotiate your deals, source your suppliers, or manage your employees.
8. When you do not have money to pour into the 'partnership', everyone questions your competence and disrespects you. When you have money, everyone praises your 'partner' for bringing peace, favour and good luck
9. Your 'partner' who does not have money to rent a good apartment, will make rules for you who has an apartment, inside the apartment YOU rented 😩
10. In that apartment that YOU rented, your 'partner' will impose a curfew on you and lock you out if you return home at a time she does not like 😭
11. Before the partnership even begins, you are expected to propose, pay bride price, fund the wedding, rent/build the house, furnish it, buy the car, and bear the financial burden of starting the partnership, because apparently, this particular partnership requires one partner to provide the capital and the other to provide consent, prayers and vibes.
What a mouthwatering partnership for you. Gbefun!
Some of you are so weird. Commuting daily you’re taking buses and keke but as soon that man reaches out to you to come over you remember uber and bolts exist.🤦🏽♀️
This generation needs to decenter this AESTHETIC mentality.
You’re making a video in your fathers house and you started with “ignore the background”, because e no get POP,
For house wey your papa sweat build.
You’re starting a small business but you want it to be aesthetically pleasing straight away, wasting money on packaging.
Everything we do now we want it to be AESTHETICALLY PLEASING.
Let’s just free ourselves from this shackles and live freely.
A woman is telling you have women are.
You will see a man trying to argue with her now.
She is clearly telling you that if she misbehaves, you should punish her immediately and severely because if you don’t, she will keep on doing worse.
But again, you will say “don’t control your woman”
Well, the way we make our bed is the way we lay on it.
If you misbehave with me, we won’t peace it out until you pay the exact dividends.
That is how I choose to live my life.
This is not even about a grandma’s love for her grandkids. In African culture, when you are chasing a child and he or she runs to an elderly person for refuge, it is automatically assumed that the child is safe and you should respect the elderly person. The grandma, being an elder at that point, will ask what the child did. She will either caution the child there or hand the child back to you for punishment, depending on the offence. But in order to maintain that elderly status and respect, she will most likely plead on behalf of the child and ask for pardon.
The lady was very disrespectful to even attempt to flog the child after he had already run to the grandma. At that point, she should have just turned back, and if she still needed to discipline the child, it should have been done later and without the knowledge of the grandma, who would likely find it even more disrespectful that after granting pardon, the punishment was still carried out.
We all witnessed this growing up. I know our culture is gradually being eroded, but we can’t allow it to disappear. Despite how some elders have turned out in present times, we still have to accord morally upright ones the respect they deserve. We will all be elders someday too.
No jab for HIV after 40 years of research.
No jab for cancer after 100+ years of research
And yet *poof* a virus mysteriously appears, and within 12 months four pharma companies somehow cook up the exact same “miracle jab” within one week of each other…
Nothing suspicious there, folks.
Totally normal
🚨SON DAKİKA:
Vladimir Putin: "Eğer Rusya, İsrail'in Gazze'de yaptıklarının sadece %10'unu yapmış olsaydı, NATO şu anda Moskova'nın kapısında olurdu."
Batı bize insan haklarının İsrail'in çıkarlarının sınırlarında başlayıp bittiğini öğretti."
I studied architectural design in Cameroon and every architect they taught me was European. Every movement, every theory, every name on the required reading list. The Great Mosque of Djenné, the Moorish arch, Great Zimbabwe never appeared on any syllabus.
Now I am studying management and every economist is Western. George Ayittey, a Ghanaian who built an entire economic framework for African development, has never appeared in a single lecture. Dambisa Moyo, a Zambian economist who argued that Western aid is destroying African economies, same.
Two disciplines. Not one African name in the required reading.
This is not only an architecture problem. It is medicine, law, economics, history. Every field is taught through a foreign lens and when a student tries to think beyond it they are disciplined for it.
We are not behind because we lack knowledge. We are behind because we were taught that ours does not count.
For context: General Soleimani was at the forefront of destroying Al-Qaida and its affiliates in Syria.
Mr "Save Nigerian Christians from deh Moozlim terruhriss" gave the direct order to murder the Iranian general who was fighting those exact "terrorists".
Whenever you wake up.
"Marry first"
LMAO....... Who don mumu, don mumu. Are they not embarrassed with whom they are dating or married to after watching this?
"No let woman feed you oo. No let woman help you, she will not respect you." 9ja men will proudly marry nonsense and be giving toxic advice.
“I’m not a religious man but for people like Elon Musk, I hope there’s heaven and hell, so they can get the punishment they deserve. Elon rips the whole world of billions to pay for a known racist Tommy Robinson’ legal bills, promote fascist party in Germany and spread misinformation, including posting a scene from Batman movie as illegal migrants storming a hospital in Birmingham” - Jonathan Pie.
Let me also add that Elon shared an AI generated video of Venezuelans thanking Trump for invading their country and kidnapping Maduro.
All of you Elon worshippers need to seriously think about your lives.
🚨 THIS JOKER RANT IS GOING VIRAL FOR A REASON... 🚨
"You're just trying to exist...
But they own the land.
They own the water.
They own the food.
You’re born into a cage.
Taxed to breathe.
Forced to work.
Trapped in a system that calls it "freedom."
Natives lived with the Earth.
We pay rent to exist on it."
This guy in full Joker cosplay is spitting raw truth from his car... and millions are feeling it.
The system isn’t broken…
It’s designed this way.
Are you waking up yet?
What’s the one thing you’d change about this matrix if you could?
Drop your biggest “just trying to exist” frustration below.
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The reason Africa is poor is because we don’t choose our leaders. We are made to believe we choose them. African leaders are chosen in London, Paris & Washington.