please if you are no longer interested in someone let them know. slowly distancing yourself, ignoring calls, and giving halfhearted responses hurts them more than simply being honest.
On my quiet days, I just hope I can accept whatever is happening in my life right now. I’m tired of overthinking, tired of worrying about things beyond my control, tired of fighting battles inside my own mind. I just want to soften, to release the weight I’ve been holding, and find peace in simply being right here, as I am.
A narcissist will only “love” you as long as you make them feel good about themselves. Start calling them on their bullshit and watch how quickly you go from soulmate to disposable.
God, help me release what I can't control. If this chapter is over, give me the strength to accept it. If healing takes time, walk with me through it. And help me focus on the life You have in front of me instead of the one behind me. Amen 🙏🏾
i don't have a soft spot for people who say the most hurtful things in anger then try to take it back once they've calmed down. no sweetheart you meant whatever tf you said,it wasn't just anger
Yeah a break up hurts but have you ever wasted years of your life on trying to show someone how much you love them to then come to a realisation that they'd already known the whole time it was just a manipulation strategy to keep you loving them and forgetting about yourself till now years later you're stuck trying to find who you were because in the process of loving them you lost you