YOUR DAY BEGINS AT MAGHRIB NOT FAJR
If you’re Muslim… the first prayer of the day is NOT Fajr, it’s Maghrib.
This Scientific Qur’anic Hack Fixes Laziness Faster Than Any Productivity Book
1/In Sha Allah, this is the last I’ll say about this topic.
As Muslims,Northern Nigerian Muslims, we’ve consistently refused to practice empathy when giving Naseeha. We’ve refused to create a warm environment where people can make a mistake without immediately feeling demonised.
80% of all autoimmune disease patients are females.
Lupus, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Hashimoto's... the disparity is massive.
But WHY is the female immune system so prone to attacking itself?
Déjà vu in Islam
Ever walked into a place for the first time… and felt like you’ve been there before?
Science calls it déjà vu. Islam explains it on a deeper level….
Yes we are very egoistic.
You know why.
A couple of weeks ago, I cut up a pregnant woman, met a ruptured uterus, brought out the life baby , repaired the womb, and sewed everything back up neat and nicely.
The second day, she was on her feet walking.
And that's just me, I'm a kid compared to other.
Dr Ose literally puts in probes and rods in people and fixes problems you can't even imagine.
Neurosurgeons can literally cut out the part of the brain that you used to type this tweet.
And yes, they can do it while you're awake.
CT surgeons and interventional cardiologist operate on a heart that is beating. That's like a mechanic working on a car with the engine running.
So yes aunty.
We are very egoistic because when we are not around, people die.
If you're not around, the only thing that happens is reduced revenue.
Do am if e easy.
Y’all who spend your time condemning Abuja girls on this app need a reality check. The truth is, only a few of you have the means, exposure, and confidence to live the lifestyle they do,let alone mingle with them long enough to be talking about marriage.
Bro, you’r not even in the picture. The same women you’re constantly criticizing probably wouldn’t even cross paths with you.
Many of these women live in places like Maitama, Asokoro, Guzape, Katampe Extension (the diplomatic corridor), Wuse 2, and parts of Garki. They’re living in circles that most of you are only discussing from a far distance corridor.
I don't know who needs to see this.
There is a difference between PHYSIOTHERAPISTS ( They are certified, went through rigorous years of training, postings, internships, specialty rotations and more)
Physiotherapists are different from "Spa therapists ", "massagers", "masseuses", "masseurs", " leg and hand straighteners", " body touchers", " muscle touchers", " muscle stimulators", " muscle vibrators" or whatever funky names they call themselves.
I get so sad when I see stroke patients have stiff, contracted and rigid limbs because of adequate Physiotherapy.
You ask them if they've been getting Physiotherapy , they say Yes.
And when you dig deeper you find out that the people doing the sessions for them aren't professionals and just doing limb exercises ( because they aren't trained and just quacks).
Physiotherapy is not just massage.
It is a therapy meant to provide physiological benefits.
If you have any limb, movement problems, strokes, tumors, post surgeries, bedridden etc and your Doctor says PHYSIOTHERAPY.
Please, it is only the certified practitioners (PHYSIOTHERAPIST) not these body robbers and robbings who are just wasting time and adding no value.
Contact PHYSIOTHERAPISTS !!!!!!!
Want to stay consistent with your salah?
Start with the Asr prayer.
Why Asr specifically?
The reason might change the way you think about salah forever.
I was trying to do a rectal examination for a patient and I couldn’t find the anus….
I called my SR, he couldn’t find it too, we had to change the patient from knee to chest to lithotomy position, search vigorously, before we finally saw the anus and the distance between the anus and the vagina was as long as an 1/4th of a single eyelash, intact the vulva had to be be elevated superiorly before you could see the anus
Over 40 years ago while giving birth, she tore from her vagina to her anus and never received any care, she had gone to the hospital but she was sent home and told to do sitz bath and the wound healed poorly she went on to have 8 more children despite the terrible birth trauma…. She was lucky she was still able to maintain fecal continence and didn’t have a fistula.
She told me how she suffered a lot of uti due to the close proximity of her vagina and anus, how labor and delivery was a terrible ordeal for her….
I saw another woman about 5 years ago that suffered 4th degree perineal tear but you will never know because it was fixed and she healed well…..
Medicine has come a long way sha
I can’t imagine the types of birth traumas some women had to go through those days especially after birthing in non hospital settings and having no specialist care.
The kids who are raised with fear learn how to avoid punishment. Kids who are raised with respect learn self-discipline.
Some parents don't need to shout, threaten, or control every move because they are present, consistent, and set clear boundaries. Their children behave not because they are terrified, but because they understand accountability and mutual respect.
All he wanted in that moment was one chance, just one, to say a proper goodbye.
His eyes carried the weight of everything he never got to fix.
He begged.
Not with pride, but with a broken, heavy heart.
He wept and called out to them the way only a father can:
“My children, please. We are victims too.”
Nobody answered.
They moved closer.
A knife found his throat.
A camera was already rolling.
He asked himself quietly, is this real?, and for a second, maybe he hoped it wasn’t.
But the blade didn’t lie.
The pain told him everything.
They didn’t stop.
Not until it was over.
Maybe he wasn’t your father.
Maybe he wasn’t from your tribe or your side of the country.
But death doesn’t check your ID or your region before it knocks.
If it could happen to him, it can happen to yours.
2027 is on the table.
And the choice sitting in front of you is simple, choose the money, choose the stomach infrastructure, choose the temporary, and we will bleed like this for another eight years.
The blood is already on the ballot.
Choose wisely.
Did you know? Yajuj(Gog) & majuj (Magog) are not aliens or monsters but from Adam's lineage? They are
Humans. Just like you and me.
Let me tell you about two of the most evil & destructive beings in Islamic eschatology:
Arabic has 14 words for love. Each one describes a different stage. And here's what got me. Each one comes from a root that has nothing to do with love. Until you see the connection. And then you can't unsee it.
All 14. Let me walk you through them.
Your Imam might not say this before marriage… but ignoring it can cost you your peace.
Please marry someone who is close to your level of imaan and your halal–haram ratio. Don’t marry a “project” thinking you’ll fix them. That mindset doesn’t build marriage, it builds resentment and ends in divorce.
Compatibility in Islam is not just about vibes or families getting along. It’s about how seriously you both take Allah’s commands in your everyday life.
Look at the halal–haram ratio in practical terms:
- One of you won’t miss salah, the other “prays when I can.”
- One is careful about , the other sees it as “normal in today’s world.”
- One lowers the gaze and guards modesty, the other follows anything and everything online.
- One prioritizes halal income, the other is comfortable with “it’s not that serious", you cannot succeed without riba in this dunya.
- One is striving to memorize Qur’an, the other barely engages with it beyond Ramadan.
- One wants a simple, barakah-filled life, the other is chasing dunya at any cost.
These are not “small differences.” These are foundational fractures.
And even if you marry someone on a similar level, ask the harder question:
Where are we both trying to go?
Are you both content staying where you are… or are you actively trying to grow?
- Is he willing to earn less temporarily to pursue Islamic knowledge and live within halal limits?
- Is she willing to simplify her lifestyle while focusing on Qur’an, deen, and building a home with barakah?
- Are you both okay sacrificing certain comforts for the sake of Allah?
Many marriages don’t break because of lack of love, they break because of different directions in deen.
You’ll see it all the time:
- A couple starts off non-practicing. The husband becomes practicing, and suddenly expects his wife to wear niqab overnight. She’s not there yet. The gap creates tension, then distance.
- Or the wife grows in deen, while the husband doesn’t pray, deals in riba, and brings in haram income. She feels spiritually suffocated. The marriage collapses.
Growth is beautiful but misaligned growth can break a marriage.
Before you marry, have honest conversations:
What does your deen look like in 3 to 5 years?
What are your non-negotiables?
Where are you flexible and where are you not?
And be real about your own journey.
I’ve personally said no to proposals where I was asked to compromise on my niqab or where my goals like memorizing Qur’an were dismissed as “too much" or being extreme in deen.
And I’ve seen sisters rejected for wanting more modesty, or for being too active in the community, or not fitting someone else’s rigid expectations.
This goes both ways.
Also stop rushing reverts into marriage. Give them space to learn Islam, to breathe, to build a foundation. And please, leave the outdated obsession of fetishizing white reverts behind. This is deen, not a trend.
And one more thing:
If someone says, “This is how I am, I won’t change take it or leave it,” believe them. That’s not confidence that’s a lack of growth mindset. Their ego is guiding them and not the deen of Allah.
Choose someone who is humble enough to evolve. Who takes criticism. Who listens to their spouse.
It’s better to be single and at peace than married and constantly struggling in your soul.
Don’t marry someone far above you that you feel overwhelmed…
And don’t marry someone far below you that you feel alone in your deen.
Marry someone who is walking towards Allah at a pace you can walk together.
🤲 May Allah grant us spouses who grow with us in iman, who soften with reminders, and who walk with us towards Jannah until our last breath. May Allah protect us from unions that distance us from Him, and bless us with hearts that remain sincere, humble, and open to growth - Allahumma Ameen.
The Prophet ﷺ changed the world in 23 years
without a phone, planner, or productivity hack and never never burned out.
Here are 10 rules from sunnah which can fix our life :
1. He slept immediately after Isha.
That take is loud, but it’s not grounded in deen or even basic responsibility.
First, Islam doesn’t excuse bad behavior because of attention. A man being “handsome” or “rich” is not a free pass to entertain other women. Lowering the gaze, guarding the heart, and staying loyal are obligations, not optional depending on how many people are looking at you.
The Prophet ﷺ taught that the best of men are those who are best to their wives. Not the ones who attract attention, but the ones who control themselves and honor their commitments. Attention is a test, not an excuse.
Second, you’re shifting blame to the woman for expecting loyalty in her marriage. That’s backwards. Wanting exclusivity, respect, and faithfulness is not weakness, it’s the bare minimum of a halal relationship. If a man cannot handle attention and still stay within boundaries, then the issue is his discipline, not her expectations.
Also, calling her “not woman enough” is just noise. Strength in Islam is not tolerating disrespect. Strength is knowing your rights, your worth, and holding your spouse to what Allah has commanded.
Yes, people will look. Yes, some may even try. But a real man shuts that down. He doesn’t entertain it, justify it, or blame his wife for it.
So no, she didn’t “sign up” for disloyalty. She signed up for a marriage built on amanah, respect, and taqwa. If those are missing, the problem isn’t her mindset, it’s his character.