The real reason a lot of yall don’t understand or like Beatriz because yall don’t have ppl in your life to challenge you or call you out when you moving a certain way but that’s how you build real relationships. She told them ppl “Check eachother”
I think friend betrayal hurts worse than betrayal from a partner because friendships are usually built on choice not obligation. A romantic relationship comes with expectations, jealousy, conflict, and the possibility that things might not work out. But a friend is someone who chooses to be in your life without any of that. They see your highs your lows & your insecurities, your wins, and often know parts of you your partner doesn’t. So when a friend betrays you, it can feel like they had a front row seat to your life and still chose to move against you. It’s not just losing a person it’s losing trust, memories, loyalty, and sometimes the version of yourself that felt safe with them. That’s why for me friend betrayal leaves a wound that’s harder to explain and longer to heal.
I remember dating someone who would often share her feelings and expectations with me. She was essentially telling me how to love and treat her. Although I listened, I didn't truly apply what she said because I was still figuring myself out and assumed she'd always be around. To my surprise, she eventually left and ceased all communication. At first, I felt betrayed and harbored resentment towards her. However, I soon realized that she had been communicating her needs all along, while I had chosen to act according to my own whims. The lesson here is: if someone consistently communicates with you and your actions don't align with their messages, don't be taken aback when they choose to distance themselves. This holds true for all types of relationships, including friendships.
The last ngga I let in was literally the LAST ngga. I’m coo on situationships, relationships, friendships, all of it. You nggas do not play fair when it come to a mf feelings. It’s like y’all beg a mf to fwu only to turn around & start acting weird asf. If I already explained to you wtf I’ve been through, told you I ain’t wanna go through that sht again. Why tf would you even attempt to put me through it? My trust so fcked up I don’t believe sht a ngga say. Y’all don’t know how to genuinely fw people.🤏🏾🤌🏾
Cheating is a character flaw and I wish people weren’t so forgiving about it. It shows a willingness to deceive, to prioritize short-term desire over integrity, and to disregard the trust someone else has placed in them.
Disgusting.
Saying "I love you" and discussing a future with your partner, then abruptly leaving their life, is one of the cruelest things you can do to another human being.
And no, your childhood trauma doesn't justify blindsiding someone who trusted you.
full of grief because i was full of love. while i am trying to move forward, my heart still carries the weight of what it refuses to let go, even after the chapter has ended. part of me is still mourning because i dared to believe in 'forever' in a world designed to be temporary.
There are men who are fine as fck, providers, intelligent, fly, family oriented, and will put everyone in their place about you. Don’t ever let anyone convince you that you can’t have that.
my program
emp
trick on me, i trick back
call me at least 3 times a day
buy me food
emp
be obsessed
princess treatment
listen to me yap
call me pretty 25/8
emp
buy me flowers
take me on dates
reassure me
show me you love me
empppp
Slow burn please. Because i want someone who falls in love with the little things that they only discover when they really get to know me and still choose me after showing my different personalities including the not too perfect ones.
I want a love that is gentle, genuine, and built step by step, where the emotional connection comes before physical attraction. And I want this to happen gradually.
I don't know if it's just me, but if things are rushed at first sight, I lose interest with the speed of light. I prefer things to grow gradually and naturally over time.
Slow burn>>>>>>>>
God isn't playing. If he wants you alone, you'll be alone. If you can't leave, he'll allow them to leave you. If you hesitate, he'll place you in a position where you have no choice but to choose yourself. He'll make your schedule so hectic that all distractions fall away. He'll place you in situations where you realise you can't take another step without consulting him first. Slowly God will remove the lenses so you can see people for who they truly are!