@alysbun i think her bars always held her back (altough she improved a lot) to make a team as an AAer :( and on the other three events she is good but not outstanding enough to maje a team just for an event or two) maybe this way she will have more chance ☀️
Before marrying a woman,
I asked old and famous marriage counselor what I should actually look for in a woman.
I thought he’d say:
No tattoos
Doesn’t party
Doesn’t drink
Low body count
No guy friends
But instead, he said this:
EMOTIONALLY SAFE PARTNERS SAY THINGS LIKE:
• Let’s slow down before we hurt each other
• Help me understand, not win
• I hear you. I’m not dismissing this
• I didn’t realize it affected you like that - thank you for telling me
• We’re on the same team
• Your feelings don’t scare me
• I’m listening, not defending
• We can talk about this without attacking
• I care more about repair than being right
• You don’t have to earn my care