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FOLLOW ME | 27 ♑️, she/her, tweeting my fleeting thoughts 💭

[she @doryvibes_]

Twitter is the imaginary friend I talk to

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

Trust the process

[she @doryvibes_]

I just think certain men need to shut up instead of acting like they know everything. They learn one revolutionary thing and try to educate me like sir, THAT’S COMMON SENSE YOU DRAIN RAT

[she @doryvibes_]

Can we put a stop to men who trauma dump without your permission?????

[she @doryvibes_]

don’t marry me just because you just want to tick off the marriage box in your life.

I deserve a slow burning love that makes me feel as though you actually chose me because you actually can’t live without me.

Marriage is a milestone and celebration of love, not a life goal.

[she @doryvibes_]

“just say no!”

[she @doryvibes_]

What if a “selfish” person is someone with boundaries?

[she @doryvibes_]

Convinced men literally hate me

[she @doryvibes_]

I’ve realised the obvious but men will pretend to have things in common with you thinking it’ll make you want to have sex with them. I need to go into the dating game with the mindset of, how long can they keep their act up for 😂😂

[she @doryvibes_]

Hinge is such a scam. Matching with a decent profile or having really good conversation before the date does not guarantee success whatsoever. Initiating dates with a man doesn’t work either, they won’t make an effort and want instant gratification.

[quiche @havingfunonIine]

Went for a walk instead of killing myself. this is what your 20s are all about

[she @doryvibes_]

I am realising that maybe I might be depressed rn. I look back at my life and there’s nothing to like about it. I haven’t genuinely laughed in so long. My sense of humour is gone. I don’t feel present. Anti depressants ain’t going to cut it, I need my whole life to change

[she @doryvibes_]

One thing my friends make me realise is that my wedding is more worthy to people than my birthday. People will make all sorts of effort and sacrifices to attend my wedding. Same with if is was my funeral. But that effort won’t be found for my birthday. I hate existing fr

[she @doryvibes_]

I actually love how down to earth Birmingham is. Reminds me of the short time I spent in High Wycombe as a child. The Birmingham Art Gallery is such a refreshing place to visit, the way it aims to uplift every spectrum of the community and embraces every single part of it 🩷

[she @doryvibes_]

Imagine being punished for caring.

[Salma Eldawy @salmaelghzali]

who tf forgets to text someone they're genuinely interested in??????? no one.

[she @doryvibes_]

I agree I might be carrying that self destructive act on myself and I’ll either swallow and digest this fact or shit it out because it’s not true

[she @doryvibes_]

I hate the fact I was raised to shut up and take abuse. It allows for any man in my life to just rip me to shreds with no mercy because I don’t know how to set boundaries without feeling like I’m destroying myself…

[she @doryvibes_]

I feel like I’m bothering and burdening all the women in my life. Self pity is the phrase I hear echoing in my ears, from women in my life.

[she @doryvibes_]

I say men because the running theme I find is that I notice they have so much freedom to express themselves without thinking about others and there’s no women physically in my life to hear me out in all these scenarios I’m in

[she @doryvibes_]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IVE BEEN THINKING!!! why aren’t they just taking responsibility for creating toxic masculinity in the first place?!?!?!

[danisha carter @danishacarterr]

if men’s mental health mattered (to men) they’d be creating safe spaces for themselves and each other, pursuing therapy, and creating community. instead, they perpetuate the very behaviors systems that have handicapped them in the first place, refuse to support or create community amongst each other, severely damage the women in their lives who try to care for them, and attack women online for not doing the work for them in replies to tweets like the one below lol.