Date someone who is genuinely curious about you. Not just someone who finds you attractive or funny, but someone who wants to know you. Someone who remembers the tiny details, reads the things you write, listens to the songs you love, watches your favorite movies, asks about the stories behind your scars, remembers your oddly specific preferences, and wants to understand what makes your mind light up. Attraction says, โI like what I see.โ Interest says, โI want to know everything there is to see.โ
Just heard this song for the first time in years and all I can think about is my grandfather because it played everyday when Iโd get ready for school and while he was getting ready for work ๐โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
Modern dating really shows you how little people give a fuck about your feelings, someone will talk to you every day, build a whole connection, make you feel seen, heard, and valued, and then switch up out of nowhere like none of that ever mattered, leaving you to sit there wondering how it was so easy for them to just not care.