It’s sucks when you were so authentic to someone, but they purposely mischaracterize you to be the villain instead of taking accountability for their actions.
honestly, feeling unwanted really does change you a lot as a person. whether it’s how you love, trust or show up for others. and in most cases you just don’t seem to want to care for others anymore because of feeling neglected over and over again.
I disagree again
Relationships are supposed to trigger you, that person who cares for you a lot will mirror every area you need to grow and growth is painful.
Don’t lose someone meaningful cos it’s tough, as far as your boundaries aren’t being crossed, they mean well, the resistance is just your pattern fighting to keep you “safe”
I disagree
The honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever, at some point the chemistry fades and flaws come to the surface. This is where most relationships either survive or break
Write ups like this make people run when they see a flaw or get triggered by their love interests cos they believe love should be easy, flowing, always sweet, but it isn’t. It’s tough, sometimes annoying, sometimes betraying and that doesn’t happen in a honeymoon
So even if you pick the best partner, you still have to do the work, learn and unlearn or else you’d lose that relationship faster than you know it