As someone with anxiety, i cannot do inconsistency. don’t introduce me to energy and a vibe you don’t plan on maintaining. one minute you’re sweet and the next minute you’re mean and cold. one minute you’re present, the next you’re distant. absolutely not.
A liar cannot lead my household.
A cheater cannot lead my household.
A man that does not take accountability cannot lead my household.
A man that cannot control his emotions cannot lead my household.
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Once I've addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, I stop caring. It's above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.
If you want commitment, don't act content with casual. Pretending you need less than you do doesn't protect your heart; it just postpones the moment you finally have to tell the truth.
Normalize saying "I don't think we have the kind of relationship that should make you comfortable enough to say that to me" when someone tries to get too familiar.