@aliciaandrz I don’t knock intuition. As a scientist said the other day, many discoveries are made because of intuition, not solid facts leading to them. And in relationships, those subtle (or not so subtle) clues are usually the only things we have to assess others.
@_imperfectfaith I agree. I enjoy his posts and his points but I don’t look to him as a hero. And he indicates he doesn’t want to be viewed that way, either.
@Her_Nonymous_D Your mistrust of those situations is understandable. What’s not understandable is why no one dug into what caused these episodes. At least on the anesthetic they could have told you if that is a known side effect so you could hopefully have an alternative in the future
Growing up, our kids hated peonies because of the ants many peonies attract. They called them “the ant plants.” Today our middle kid said they’ve planted peonies 😀