Idk I just hate and cannot respect a weak man. What do you mean it got a little stressful and uncomfortable for you so you ran to a good time and stress free option? Like okay princess.
I can’t be friends with people that do things just to ‘make other people mad’ or to troll somebody. how is it that you’re living your life worried about other people? whole life just a troll fest 😭 y’all don’t even know what y’all truly enjoy anymore
Most people don’t notice when they’re being taken for granted. They notice when they finally stop showing up the way they used to, and suddenly the imbalance becomes obvious.
You can be deeply loved and still poorly treated. Because love is a feeling. Value is a choice. Some people love you enough to keep you, but not enough to protect your peace. That's the difference.
A narcissist is:
A victim of everything,
responsible for nothing,
offended by everything,
contributing nothing,
yet entitled to everything.
- Libriscent
Some people don't want a healthy relationship.
They want immunity, freedom to disrespect you, ignore you, lie to you, and cross boundaries while expecting you to remain calm enough to avoid exposing it.
The moment your pain becomes visible, they call you the problem.
Normalize creating distance when you know someone's been speaking negatively about you. You don't have to keep showing up with a smile just to "keep the peace" while someone is comfortable disrespecting you behind closed doors. If someone chose to speak on you, let them stand on it. You're not obligated to be extra cordial to people who haven't been genuine with you.