I don't know why men don't understand that the happiness of a marriage is in the husband's hands. It's not in the wife's hands. Because a woman is responsive, she reflects and amplifies what she consistently receives from him over time.
Give her attention, reassurance, and respect. She naturally gives back more than most men expect. Make her feel chosen, valued, and seen, and she connects more deeply without needing to be forced. But give her neglect, criticism, or silence, and her warmth slowly fades without you even noticing.
A woman mirrors the emotional environment. When she feels safe, she relaxes. When not, she protects herself. She doesn't wake up wanting to be difficult and she becomes distant when she feels unseen or unappreciated.
Nurture her and she grows. Hurt her repeatedly and she adapts by pulling back emotionally over time. The version of her a man experiences often comes from what he consistently gives, not just what he expects.
Toda mulher gosta de ser admirada pelo seu homem. Mas tem homem que pouco se importa com isso. Uma pena. Pois mulher se apaixona mesmo é pela forma como ela é vista e tratada.
That gorilla brooding after a fight with his partner shares 98% of your DNA. His brain is wired like yours, just smaller. So when it looks like he is replaying the argument in his head, that look has science behind it. Researchers can measure what he is going through.
His name is Kiyomasa, he is about 13, and he lives at a zoo in Nagoya, Japan. He was born famous. His dad is Shabani, the silverback who blew up online in 2015 as the world's most handsome gorilla. Photos of his heavy brow and faraway stare went everywhere, women lined up to see him, and the zoo's daily crowds nearly doubled. The whole family became known for these slow, brooding poses, like a model on a shoot.
Making up after a fight has a long paper trail. A Dutch scientist named Frans de Waal spent the 1970s watching a group of chimps at a zoo. Two of them would have a blowup, and soon after they would go find each other and smooth it over, usually with a hug or a kiss. He called it reconciliation, a word that until then people only used about other people. Researchers have since caught gorillas doing it too. And often a third animal, one with no part in the fight, wanders over and wraps an arm around whoever lost. That small act is the clearest sign of empathy anyone has found in another animal.
The brain pulling this off runs on the same blueprint as yours. The thinking layer, that wrinkled outer shell, holds about 9 billion cells in a gorilla and 16 billion in you. Same design, roughly a third the size. And the gorilla is stuck there. It already spends around eight hours a day just eating to fuel its body and brain. Grow it to human size and it would need more eating time than a day even has. So it stays small for a plain reason: leaves and fruit cannot pay for anything bigger.
Their feelings run deep too. When a gorilla baby dies, the mother will often carry the body for days, still cradling it, still grooming it. One wild mother in the Congo carried hers for sixteen days. A twenty-one-year study of mountain gorillas saw mothers do the very same thing.
So the gorilla brooding in that clip is one of your closest living relatives. For about 15% of your DNA, you line up with a gorilla more closely than you line up with a chimp. Apes feel the fallout of a fight, sit in it for a while, then go and fix it. We just came along later and gave it a fancier name.
They say a relationship works only if the guy loves more than the girl and now I think I understand why.
For a guy, what he feels matters.
For a girl, how he makes her feel matters. He won't leave as long as he loves you and she won't leave as long as she feels loved.
Existe uma lenda japonesa que diz:
Se você perdeu o ônibus, talvez tenha evitado o acidente. Se você foi rejeitado, talvez tenha sido poupado do lugar errado. Se eles partiram, talvez tenham aberto espaço para quem está por vir. O universo te protege de maneiras que, a princípio, parecem azar. Confie no desvio
Não tinha celular de última geração pra pagar, não tinha que ter uma vida chique para se sentir bem pq o insta te faz querer o que o outro tem o tempo todo. não tinha Netflix, Amazon etc, as pessoas iam pras ruas conversar, tinham responsabilidades desde cedo, familia cedo…
"Nunca se esqueça q basta uma crise política, econômica ou religiosa para q os direitos das mulheres sejam questionados. Esses direitos n são permanentes. Você terá que manter-se vigilante durante toda a sua vida."
Simone de Beauvoir a 77 anos atrás, vc n está segura mulher.
A mulher fica 'simpática' depois de uma grosseria aleatória porque tá com medo do sujeito ser um doente que pode botar a integridade física dela em risco
Mas é claro que os José Cabaço Misógenes da Silva vão entender que isso tem algum elemento de flerte