One thing to understand the cycle of abuse, but it's entirely another to see someone you know start walking down that path. I've seen it up close, and it shakes you to the core. You see them, and they're angry and hurting from all the damage their old man did, and you get it, you really do. But then, there's this shift, almost like they slip into the same patterns they despise, and it's like, "No, what are you doing?"
I've been there, trying to shake them out of it, reminding them, "You're better than this. You know how much it sucked to be on the receiving end." But it's like talking to a wall sometimes. The thing is, understanding why someone became the way they are doesn't mean you gotta follow suit. It's tough, though, when all the messed up stuff is what you've been fed since you were little.
If you see yourself or someone else starting to echo those bad patterns, it's time to hit the brakes. Talk to someone, a therapist, a trusted friend, anyone. Break that cycle before it takes hold. And if you're dealing with someone spiraling into that behavior, be there, but also, look out for yourself. You can't help anyone if you're drowning too. It's not about giving up on them; it's about not losing yourself in the process. Stay alert, stay kind, but most importantly, stay safe. That's the real talk!!
Yall fuck the same nigga for 6 years just too keep a "low body count" and he fucked 39 bitches and you think THATS valuing your body as opposed to a woman fucking more men and yall don't see how thats the dumbest shit ever- like i said misogyny rots y'all brains
@itsvickivoss It be the bitches you thought was chill too that align with r4pist bc “he seems nice” or “he doesn’t seem like someone that would do that” bitch i’m telling you he did in fact r4pe me, how is that “nice”😭😭
@richardrahl1086 @gibblegobble3 @AlliRaine22 not a wedding ceremony. issue a marriage license. very different things. lots of people don’t even have a ceremony.