sifat kaya gini tuh udah keliatan dari pacaran sebenernya.
ga usah sama pasangan, gue sama temen pun kalo udah kerasa ga balance secara inisiatif, effort, manner, ga segan langsung jaga jarak. sempet mikir kayanya gue terlalu transaksional... but
@sahy0mi I feel the same, it might sound selfish but in friendship/relationships in general showing up and giving equal efforts for each other matters a lot to me. I used to be very all in for my favorite people but when they don't show their affections to me, it's very heart-breaking🫠