Tanu

My life is a meme, rather I am a meme ||PGY-1 MS Ophthalmology || ⚕

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

Life update: MS Ophthal it is🥹
#MedTwitter #MedX

[Chature bhole @arpita_pradhan_]

no, i can’t do casuals. i can’t do situationships. i can’t do summer flings, winter flings, or whatever season we’re pretending this is.
just get me my husband ffs.

[Chature bhole @arpita_pradhan_]

Every time I speak about my experiences with men or why I’m cautious around them, there’s always someone ready to tell me, “Not all men.”

Fair enough.

But the ₹370 biryani controversy perfectly demonstrates why women remain cautious anyway.

Because the problem has never been identifying the bad ones. If it were that easy, nobody would have these experiences.

The problem is that you don’t know.

You don’t know which man sees a date as two people getting to know each other and which man sees it as a transaction. You don’t know who is being kind because they’re genuinely interested in you and who is being kind because they expect a return on investment.

That’s why so many women have their guard up.

What bothered me most about that clip wasn’t one man’s comment. It was how familiar the mindset felt.

Women have been dealing with versions of this forever: “I paid for dinner.” “I drove all the way here.” “I did so much for you.”

Different words. Same message.

The belief that effort deserves access.

The belief that kindness deserves a reward.

The belief that human connection is transactional.

It isn’t.

A date is not a contract. A meal is not an investment. Basic decency is not a down payment on someone’s body.

And until more people understand that, women will continue being cautious, no matter how many times they’re told they’re being unfair.

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@jigar_042 Happy birthday Jigru🫶🏻

[🧃 @jigar_042]

A humble request to all of you - STOP MAKING STUPID PEOPLE FAMOUS.

[Chature bhole @arpita_pradhan_]

Adulting is basically finding out that bad people face zero consequences and still sleep peacefully at night.

[Chature bhole @arpita_pradhan_]

Please kindly refrain from talking to me, I’m currently on a gents detox.

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@Shivaaywho_ Thanks so much✨🫶🏻

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

Back on your timeline after forever🤍

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@jigar_042 Helloooo😌

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@Niranjan791 Arre bhai na ro rahi🥲

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

The only problem i have rn in my life is, ki mai kis photo me zyada sundar lag rahi hu😌

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@Niranjan791 To kya mai apna syllabus dekh kar roo du ab🙂‍↕️

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@jigar_042 Ofc😮‍💨😌

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@Escapeplace__ Tumhari nahi hai?
Meri to sparkly pink hain

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@jigar_042 @maybesarthak Shut up

[Chature bhole @arpita_pradhan_]

Lately, one thing I’ve realised is that you can literally give a garden full of roses to a person, but it’ll never be enough for someone whose favorite flower is marigold.

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@wiinxclub5 Hi cutie!

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

Day 24326 of wondering whether to come back on Twitter or keep enjoying my peaceful life.
Btw, Hie guys!

[Dr Kamlesh Darji @DrKamleshDarji1]

Never forget those consultants/seniors who corrected you privately but praised you publicly.

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@jigar_042 Very difficult task🙂‍↕️

[Tanu @dr_dumbaf]

@jigar_042 Tu chup 😮‍💨