dudes love to be like "kill your local rapist" because they know they're never going to be in the position to do that, or even be expected to. actually addressing sexual + gendered violence requires a hundred small actions every day, not a performative promise of future violence
The IDF
Slavery
Colonialism
Jim Crow
Nazi Germany
I'm sure countless other examples
Women are not some unique, separate species. There have always been women complicit in the violent oppression and rape of other women (and men)
You hate misandry because you think men are oppressed.
I hate misandry because it destroys mens mental health.
I also hate misogyny because that is both oppression and mental health destruction.
We are not the same.