drac

psych major and findomme, nerdy side of @dracudomme2 and @dracubratt

[drac @dracubrain]

one of my professors just gifted me a skateboard deck and this is the sweetest thing ever oh my god

[drac @dracubrain]

not to flex but i found the perfect spot on campus to study and do SW and im very happy with myself rn

[drac @dracubrain]

god i love being a student i love being in academia i love being an academic

and i love that my sapiosexual subs fund my schooling

[drac @dracubrain]

chat i have an A in my psych class rn and it’s awesome because my main objective in that class is to learn the material, not get a good grade

and when the goal is to genuinely learn and retain information, a good grade just comes as a natural consequence

[drac @dracubrain]

completing my assignments in advance so I have a buffer bc im just cool like that

I LOVE SCHOOL

[drac @dracubrain]

my god do I love being a student and in academia

[drac @dracubrain]

I got an 100% of my first psych test btw yippee

[drac @dracubrain]

taking an online psych quiz rn :P

[Demoness Drac 🦇💖 @dracudomme2]

aftercare chats 🫶

[drac @dracubrain]

this past summer, i learned about the jungian theory that addiction (of any kind) is just the manifestation of unfulfilled potential and honestly i cannot stop thinking about it

[drac @dracubrain]

you guys wanna hear how much of a nerd i am?

for my birthday this past year, my one wish was for my friend to buy me this paid lecture series on love/sex/relationships

and i spent that birthday watching lectures and taking notes and it was fucking beautiful

[Demoness Drac 🦇💖 @dracudomme2]

having clear boundaries, limits, and safe words helps your sub enter subspace both faster and deeper.

think of it like this— let’s say you’re an acrobat jumping from one trapeze to another. if you have a safety net underneath, you’re better able to concentrate on your jump. because even if you mess up and fall, you know there’s something there to catch you.

meanwhile… what if there was no safety net? if you fell, you’d hit concrete and die. are you really going to be focused on doing beautiful tricks, or is most of your mental energy spent making sure you survive?

exactly. now apply that to kink. not just during active play, but throughout the whole dynamic.

[Demoness Drac 🦇💖 @dracudomme2]

a lot of men out in the world will purposely do or say anything just to get a reaction out of you. it may feel cathartic in the moment to flip them off or cuss them out, but ultimately you're just giving them what they want--attention. whether it's positive or negative doesn't matter.

unironically, bullying and degrading finsubs has made me a much more emotionally regulated, peaceful, and unbothered person in my vanilla life.

non-paying men no longer get any of my time, attention, or energy. even if they do something disrespectful or annoying or bothersome, it's like... okay. you're not paying. why would i get mad at you FOR FREE?

[drac @dracubrain]

debating on whether or not to get a substack for this account...

i could also use the "articles" feature on here but hmm

[drac @dracubrain]

@bookish_hannah absolutely NOT, please go