@birlap_ i have stanned zutara from day one. soul mates, you can’t convince me otherwise. i don’t care WHO she technically ended up with. she secretly wanted the heat.
Using they/them as a default when you don’t know people’s pronouns is not misgendering. Intentionally using they/them to refer to people who you know only use she/her or he/him is misgendering. What is difficult about this concept