Stephen de Wit

Get your fill of education, empowerment and entertainment about all things sex. International speaker, author and coach. Snapchat: dr.dewit Instagram: @drdewit

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

If you've ever wondered what a sexologist is or what we do... I made this video to give you some insight.

#keynote #keynoter #speaker #sexologist #humansexuality #sextherapy #sexeducation #sexpositivity #healthykink #selflove #sextherapist #ichangesexlives #kink #consent

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#facebookdown #instagramdown
Me running to Twitter to confirm that I am not the only one having issues with Facebook and Instagram, whatsapp.

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

GOOD THING OR BAD THING?⠀
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What tempts you?⠀
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- drugs?⠀
- sex?⠀
- food?⠀
- social media⠀
- netflix⠀
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What is your passion or poison?⠀
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#sextherapist… https://t.co/YV6gdw04fm

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

THE CUNNILINGUS CONSPIRACY!⠀
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If your partner does not like giving you oral. What do you do?⠀
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Here are a few helpful tips:⠀
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- let them hear and see your pleasure and satisfaction⠀
-… https://t.co/DOv9tJCfLD

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WHAT DOES PORN SOUND LIKE?⠀
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Have some fun with this. ⠀
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Click on some porn and capture what you heard in the comments.⠀
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#sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit… https://t.co/KFxvUKSGyN

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HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?⠀
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Is bigger better?⠀
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As penis owners their has been a massive focus on penis size.⠀
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Some people don't enjoy large penises.⠀
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Some people don't want penetrative… https://t.co/dvUF3C1r7F

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ARE YOU LOUD OR QUIET?⠀
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Do you talk? ⠀
Give directions?⠀
Talk dirty?⠀
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Are your orgasm loud or quiet?⠀
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Have you ever had noise complaints?................. I have ;)⠀
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Was this… https://t.co/Vh72Mnackb

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

#TBT - I MAY BE NAKED!⠀
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It is days like this when I miss having a boat!⠀
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The joy on my face is palpable.⠀
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#sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit… https://t.co/uXlTSaH9Li

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

IS DIGITAL LOVE LEGIT?⠀
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I remember years ago I was MCing a wedding (I have done many) and the bride and groom had met on line. They specifically requested that I did not mention… https://t.co/kRseAqAecn

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

FOMO⠀
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Rarely if ever is someone having amazing sex all the time. Although it can appear that way.⠀
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Through your life there will be ebbs and flows, ups and downs. Trust in yourself… https://t.co/KdZB77WL87

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WHAT IS YOUR LOVE MAKING JAM?⠀
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Music can do much to set the mood, communicate what you want.⠀
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I am always surprised when I take the time to listen to lyrics how sexual they… https://t.co/2HKIMCTVEF

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WHAT YOU WANT MATTERS!⠀
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Your needs and wants are legit.⠀
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Do not give up if you haven't found a partner or your partner is not open to exploring what you are interested in.⠀
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Have… https://t.co/plHaqufwLD

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HUMILITY AS AN ACCESS TO GROWTH⠀
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At different times in my life I have been at what I like to think of as the top of my game.⠀
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The reality is that I am at the bottom of another… https://t.co/wl5rm8Iyvf

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COMMUNICATION IS LUBRICATION!⠀
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To actually allow someone to see you for who you are and accept you is one of the most powerful bonding experiences possible.⠀
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The catch here is most of… https://t.co/Y5EpnfC9Qv

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

#tbts ⠀
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I won! Last year at the @canfitpro World Fitness Expo I won the outstanding new speaker.⠀
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I had the opportunity to speak in front of 5000 people. I will never forget… https://t.co/BJhdKP2i1y

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HUMAN TOUCH IS VITAL!⠀
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I remember when I first moved to Toronto. I really didn't know anyone and was really struggling.⠀
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Two touches I remember:⠀
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1). I had bronchitis in the middle… https://t.co/bBb1iIN7aZ

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

IT'S BETTER DOWN WHERE IT'S WETTER!⠀
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Let's talk lubrication. ⠀
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As a general rule of thumb the more the better. If it is natural or external.⠀
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If things are not happening in the… https://t.co/3sKrT9isKb

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE!⠀
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Sometimes just for yourself.⠀
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Masturbation is lubrication for your sex life.⠀
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-release sexual tension⠀
- reduce stress⠀
- help you sleep better⠀
- improve your… https://t.co/4F0I3lXyVD

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TOO MUCH TOGETHER TIME?⠀
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Are you too connected to your partner?⠀
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Is that even a thing?⠀
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We have been taught to complete our partner to be inseparable. ⠀
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Does that serve… https://t.co/eVwLMbAibO

[Stephen de Wit @drdewit]

SILENCE IS YOUR ENEMY!⠀
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Communication is lubrication for your sex life. 😃⠀
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Reasons for not speaking up that I have heard:⠀
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- don't want to hurt partner's feelings⠀
- never have… https://t.co/yCRE4loC2H